So my wife has always known and teased me about me going bi . And even tho I adore women and why we are married, she came to me asking if we can open up for some fun .

I asked her what fun is to her , sex was her answer, does that Include a relationship with the sex , she said yo some degree but not like steady boyfriend type . Only douch as a FWB type and that we stay married to each other. She insisted she is not looking to replace me . Only that we have become sort of plain and she wants excitement and some thing different.

Again She insisted she is not leaving me or replacing me and what we have now stays the same she is not going to deny me any affection or love , this will only be " extra " on top of what we have .

Now here's my part , she knows I like watching gay porn and we leave it on when having sex , she likes watching me jo while I'm watching it and said nows MY chance to find my " extra " , She said I can find a guy or girl , as long as we are safe .

Said she might wanna watch it join in if that would make me feel better about it.

My head is spinning