I am on a quest to find three things: smart talk, playful connection, and intimate fun with a smart, sweet, sexy woman like you.

Smart Talk: I simply love an intelligent, articulate, quick-on-the-draw woman who enjoys light conversation, smart talk, and wordplay. Perhaps I am the victim of too many 1990s-2000s rom-coms, but a great meet-cute and fun snappy dialogue with a clearly over-educated and ambitious and super smart woman makes my heart race. I want to be your clever, swift-footed smile-maker.

Playful Connection: I want more than just witty banter and less than a heavy-too-fast soul-connection. In the middle there is a world of supportive and real and whimsical and light interaction -- think the middle set of dates before the prom or a great wonderful collection of easy thoughts and sweet shared moments rather than situation-changing, high-intensity, heavyweight checklists. I want to bring good energy and fun into your world and share smiles and sweetness in the midst of the never ending logistics and daily grind.

Intimate Fun: I would love a great organic sensual sexual intimate connection with you. I love flirting. I love playfully provoking you. I'm naturally confident and dominant and take charge. I have experience in making you smile and gasp and blush and a lot more. I want to have really great dirty fun with you and to bring you those intense and unapologetic moments of ecstasy too.

I think all this starts online and then evolves where it evolves.

Me:

* 5'8", 165 lbs., 53 years old, Asian -- black hair, brown eyes, warm smile, amazing voice

* Intellectual, playful, quick-witted, fun

* Athletic, conventionally good-looking / friendly, fit

* Intelligent, over-educated, well-traveled

* Successful professional with a demanding and rewarding career, lots of travel

* Friendly/flirty with a stealth take-charge streak

* High energy

You:

* Female, married, searching for more

* Smart, educated, cosmopolitan (or other drink of choice!)

* Athletic, in shape, easy on the eyes

* Intellectual, whimsical, playful

* High energy

I’m based in NYC and am frequently in DC.

I am primarily looking online but might consider more.