Hey you,

Thanks for taking the time to read my post! Even if you hate everything you’ll read below, it makes me happy that there are other romantics out there. You see, I’m looking for something a little more meaningful than the average OA regular. I often feel alone in a lacking marriage. There, I said it. Don’t get me wrong, I’m generally happy with a rewarding life and amazing friends, but after experiencing how much an OA can add to my life I truly miss the “us against the rest of the world” feeling it can bring. Of course real life always comes first. And yes, we’re both realistic enough to understand that this connection might not last forever either. And no, we won’t make silly choices that will haunt us down the road. But in the meantime… I want to feel those sparks and butterflies of a true pocket-relationship again.

After becoming your new online best friend (and only then) I’d love to explore the world of gentle femdom together. I have a stressful job and a stressful personal life, and I’ve long dreamed of being truly vulnerable with someone I trust as the ultimate escape. However, that’s about as specific and explicit as my fantasies go. Although I’m very open minded I’m a firm believer that kinks shouldn’t be treated as a grocery list or compability sheet. Different people form different dynamics together. New fantasies emerge and others suddenly become uninteresting. Slowly going through that process together is a big part of the fun. That’s why I don’t particularly mind whether you have any experience in this, or even much interest. As long as this side of me doesn’t scare you off, as long as you enjoy getting compliments and like to tease a little sometimes, as long as you’re not into bulky army guys folding you into origami shapes in the bedroom, and as long as you like to be the big spoon (too).

About me: father of humans - slightly alternative - confident, assertive as needed, but calm, composed and observant - ten fingers, one nose, two eyes, all in the usual positions - relatively tall, hwp and healthy, but much rather reads a book than fighting the concept of gravity in a gym (did anyone ever win that fight?) - slightly nerdy, but more in the traditional “curious about everything” way than the Reddit “anime and Star Wars” sense - loves to people watch and invent their full life stories - casual board / video gamer.

We’ll probably get along if: you’re unhappy in your relationship - you’re a parent - you’re as curious about me as I am about you, and likes to ask questions.

I don’t mind where you live, as I would never pass on an amazing connection because of a time difference. I don’t particularly have an age range in mind either. Ultimately it’s all about that one impossible to predict strike of lightning.

If any of this resonated with you I’d love to get to know you!