I know like 90% of posts here are from men so the women or cock lovers can be super picky but I wanna shoot my shot…. Hello everyone. You can call me Connor or Bo, and… I need an escape.

I am married to my best friend. I would never consider leaving him (he is trans Masc), but our time together is just getting….. Boring. Because of his transition, our sexlife is almost non existent because of how it triggers his gender dysphoria and body dysmorphia. I consider myself Hypersexual and Pansexual with a heavily kinky mindset. So when it goes for weeks or sometimes months with no physical contact in that regard, it starts messing with my head and I am honestly getting tired of it.

A little about me if you’re curious. I am on the heavier side. Yep. Total dad bod. I balance out, however, with my height and my strong arms and legs. I have a shaved head because of bad genetics already making me pretty much bald back in highschool. I love all things nerd. Video games (Xbox and Nintendo bitches lol), anime, DnD, and I am a writer too when I can find time. Plus I love to paint miniatures and do hand crafting for set pieces and map design for DnD campaigns. I have a heart of gold, I love to spoil emotionally, and I will make sure that anything we do, you are 100% sure about and feel confident in. I also have a pretty regular job as a preschool teacher working Monday-Friday.

What I am looking for. Age doesn’t matter to me. As does body type and gender. Not even race or nationality matters to me. All I ask is that you are able to speak good English, only because I don’t know other languages to communicate. I’m open to learning other languages as well talk though lol. That all being said, I would be lying if I said I didn’t have preferences. I do but I won’t send you away if you don’t fit them. What I am really looking for is someone who I connect with. Someone who can give me butterflies when I see their tag appear on my screen. Someone open to helping me regulate and channel my pent up sexual energy once we have made a strong connection.

I think pic exchange in the beginning is a very important thing to do. I prefer SFW pictures in the beginning because it’s more natural and we feel more comfortable. As I said above, I am attracted to just about everything so it’s just more about me being able to see your warm and happy smile than anything. If things progress nicely, we can go into NSFW, but that’s not gonna be for a bit I think.

All I ask is that if you don’t feel it, don’t just ghost. Give me an explanation to what you are thinking and give me a proper goodbye. You can contact me here on Reddit, or I also have Discord, QuillMiester. I hope we can connect soon and I hope you all have a great day.