I’ve been chatting to a few lovely people on here but it has fizzled or have ghosted for whatever reason so thought I’d try to find a genuine connection again. I’m married to a wonderful woman with 3 beautiful children but as time goes on it feels more like a partnership than a relationship. Yes, we love each other, but I’m not so sure about us being in love with each other any more.

I want that spark and rush when I get a message, I want to know I’m being thought of, I want to feel wanted for me, not for what I do. I want to smile at my phone and I want to be the reason you smile at yours.

Ideally, you would be reasonably local, however I’m open to talk to a woman in whatever time zone that wants to connect with someone on an intellectual and emotional level not just the sexual stuff.

Preferably you are around my age, you must at least be emotionally mature enough to hold a decent conversation but not of the age where morning cartoons weren’t actually a thing yet.

I want to get to know you, I want to know how your day has been, what your dreams are, your interests and hobbies, favourite movies, all of those kind of things that are exciting, especially when getting to know someone.

I’m a down to earth, easy going guy that’s as comfortable sitting by a fire in reflective silence as I am cutting a rug on a night out. If I get a chance to take a day for myself, I love to get outdoors, either fishing, camping, hiking, hunting or exploring. I’m not always outdoors though, I still like quiet nights in watching movies and I love a good chat! Im pretty much an open book & pretty easy to talk to.

I don’t want to change anyone’s situation at this stage and I don’t want to change mine, but if we do hit it off and we live close enough I would open to meeting IRL if it feels right.