Here we go. I’m looking for my person. I don’t want a boundary of online only but I don’t want to limit this to a small area because the right connection is hard enough to find as it is. Where conversation flows easily, interests and perspectives overlap, attraction is undeniable, and we immediately click and can’t get enough of each other. That chemistry. It’s either there or it’s not. It can’t be forced. I am not here for a quick sexting thing or a short term whatever thing people do on these subs. I want depth. I want to laugh, I want to share everything, I want great conversations, I want to be our real selves, and I want to have fun. I want a genuine relationship with unlimited possibilities. I know what attributes I need in order to have a chance at that.

38 - 48, straight, married (as I am), in the eastern half of North America, prefers long form messages to get to know each other and not constant one line chat, loves to laugh, thoughtful, affectionate, patient, believes in honesty and proactive communication, open to anything should that wonderful connection be found. You’re someone who doesn’t respond to every post because you know your worth and want something real. Most importantly, if you are here strictly because of a dead bedroom, pass this one up. If you’re “happily” married, hard pass. If you believe affairs are a solution to your problems, you’re not the one I’m looking for.

Physically, fit to average body type and no long beard. Let’s make this part easy with pics asap and let’s be understanding about it, shall we?

If this fits you message me and give me a reason to message you back. Include your details (age, location, description) and what song you’ve been listening to lately. At least I’ll know you read this far. If we vibe you’ll be very happy with me.

I’m not a night owl so I’ll check back sometime tomorrow.