Do you want to continue riling each other up, teasing each other until we can’t waiiit for the day to end and play time to start? Exchange GIFs and giggles? Get to know more about one another, we have only known each other for seconds online and all… Look. These pairings tend to have moments of intensity (fuck do they/they fucking better haha), moments of curiosity about one another, annnd moments where life has intervened, things have gone quiet, and it may take effort to remind each other just how fun ‘we’ can be. I am here for it.

I just selfishly want someone else who’s interested enough in the balance between sex and friendship that he’ll actually contribute to keeping it going past the initial excitement (fun though that absolutely is). So long as we’re having fun that is, nooobody wants to force anything/life is enough work lol.

Short story (like I know how to tell those haha): We don’t need to fall in love, but we should be able to revive a conversation without freaking out.

Bit about me:

· I’m a 34F curvy, curious, nerdy mom of three. I tend to keep busy, I love life, and find myself with room for more in it.

· I have a high libido, and am thrilled with that. Yes I’d love to get to know you. I’d also love to talk turn ons and sext and tease all day (torture I know), until we finally get to mutually play :D

· I am direct, so I’ll let you know if something isn’t working for me in a respectful but open way.

· Lucky enough to be in a great marriage. No judgment, and a lot of sympathy, to those who are not, but if it’s going to drive you nuts that I am, or you’re looking for your one and only… probably best off elsewhere.

· I have many turn ons, but some include giving/receiving oral, nipple play (not a little bit. A LOT, I am not wasting these haha), fuck like we mean it kind of sex when it gets there.

· I enjoy a few week connection as much as the next girl, it just gets old. I’d love to find a connection that is sexy AND lasting (I know, I know, the dream of it eh)?

· I maintain multiple connections. I’d love for it to be less, but OA cycling is OA cycling, and I try to be realistic.

Bit about you:

· 29-42 (it’s arbitrary, but drawing the line somewhere based on best past connections)

· Love sexting, tease pics, voice clips, mutual play when we’re able

· Have some turn ons you can’t wait to tell me about… (feel free ;) )

· I would looove it if you were in EST. I am so tired of finding a great connection that neither of us has energy to stay up for at the end of the day lol.

· Understand we both have lives, mooost of us aren’t here 24/7

· Aren’t afraid to say what you want, or hear about mine

If any of this resonated, or you just want to shoot your shot and see where it lands, please feel free to reach out. Tell me a bit about yourself, share a pic if you feel brave, or find some other way to grab my attention ;).

If you put effort into a response, I will do my level best to get back to you, even if just to say no thanks. I’m sorry reddit can be so ridiculous for us all (and in such different ways!).