Hi to all you fun and amazing OA seekers out there. I'm a 44 year old (mostly) happily married dad with a professional job and a hybrid schedule. I'm seeking someone for medium to longterm casual conversation, a partner to make our work days more enjoyable, and plenty of fun sexting and making each other all hot and bothered. My availability is generally 8am-5pm central M-F.

I hope for someone who enjoys lots of back and forth conversation throughout the day. Someone who likes asking and answering questions. Someone who can do their fair share of moving the conversation forward. I love getting to know each other on a personal level and discussing a variety of topics, including why certain things turn us on, the psychology behind it, etc.

I'm not looking to change situations, exchange pics or video, meet in person, or switch to different apps. Reddit chat only.

A bit about me: I love my family and have a pretty good life, but I'm otherwise lacking social interaction and excitement. I like staying active and being in good shape. I also enjoy camping and hiking, podcasts, reading, movies, and outdoor cooking. If looks are important, I'm 5'11", 185 lbs, blonde hair with a bit of grey, blue eyes, and an athletic build. I'm somewhat submissive, but am capable of being dominant when needed.

A bit about you: friendly and outgoing, confident, intelligent, and a good sense of humor would be a great start. An attractive discription is nice. I might prefer someone who is single, or perhaps married but not a parent, because conversation is more interesting when our lives don't look so similar. But I'm open to chatting with anyone fun and outgoing. Please respect my commitment to my family, but also get a devious thrill from stealing my attention away from my wife.

If any part of this post speaks to you, I'd love to hear from you. Have a great day!