Please be able to communicate throughout the day. I completely understand we all get busy but, at the very least, I really need a lot of communication during the day, Monday thru Friday. I know evenings and weekends can be a bit harder to chat but I’m the type of person to let my partner know when I’ll be unavailable for a while; I hope you can do the same. Over the past couple of months I’ve had the worst luck when it comes to this. People I thought I hit it off with could only send messages randomly throughout the day. This is supposed to be exciting. A lot of us our hear because we lack all the fun that comes with connecting with someone; it shouldn’t have to go without saying but open, honest, frequent chatting is the only way an online affair can work. 

My apologies for that rant but it’s been happening too often. 

About me:

I’m a 39 year old married man in Southern California. I don’t have any children but it’s not an issue for me whether you do or don’t. I’ve been with my wife for almost 10 years and in a dead bedroom for 3 of them. Beyond the lack of anything physical, we just don’t communicate the way lovers should. There is a full lack of passion in our relationship. We are more like friends/roommates. I need more, and if you are reading this, I’m sure you do as well. I’m 5’11, 180lbs, have a non-dad-bod/athletic-ish body, a trimmed beard, I shave my head because I think I look better this way (I can grow a full head of hair), a few tattoos, and a big smile. I’m lucky enough to be happy with the majority of my life and love to smile and laugh. I’m kind, understanding, confident, respectful, and (in my opinion) hilarious. I’m educated and have a successful career that I enjoy. Plenty of hobbies but would love to share/discuss them once we connect

What I’m hoping to find:

Ideally you’d be around my age but I’m open to an AP as young as 28ish. I don’t really have a maximum age limit. Race and ethnicity don’t matter to me. I’m open to body type as well. I just prefer you to be aware of your health. Whether you’re a gym rat, just starting/curious about getting healthier, or in between….I’m into it. I just want to be with someone who is aware of your health. I understand we are all here because we are not fully happy with our relationship at home, but I’d like you to be a happy person overall. Please be looking for a fun partner to compliment you as a fun person. I love messages throughout the day, lots of picture exchanges, voice messages, voice and video calls when time allows it. I’m ready for something special and exciting again. This can be strictly online but the possibility of meeting in person will always be on the table for me. It’d be great if that is something you’d be open to as well. 

I’m in the PST/PDT Obviously everyone prefers someone in the same time zone but it doesn’t matter too much to me. I know this can work regardless of us having a few hours time difference. 

My platform of choice is Telegram. It always will be. 

If you think we’d be a great fit, please reach out. I promise to put effort into this. This may go without saying, but if you decide to respond, please tell me a bit about yourself, instead of just “hi”.

Take care.