I used to have a best friend that I met on here but unfortunately that relationship ended as they often do. I miss having a friend to talk to, someone who understands what I am going through be cause they have gone through it or are going through it themselves. If you are browsing this sub, then you probably already know.

I've been married for 20 years and while we have had our ups and downs, it seems like this down has lasted far longer than it should have. We have grown apart emotionally and physically. I am looking for someone who I can talk and connect with, preferably someone in a similar situation. I want to connect emotionally, get all the feelings. I like chatting about our days, sending pics to each other, selfies, what we are cooking, or just something we might have thought the other would find interesting.

I'm tall, heavyset, tattooed and bearded. If you are looking for someone hwp and goes to the gym, I'm not that guy. I do have a good sense of humor, even if it can be a bit dark at times. I also love to cook and bake, my musical tastes are still stuck in the 90's, I enjoy gaming and binge watching shows.

As for the best friend I am looking for, it's hard to say. Personality is the key, some click and others don't. Ideally they would have kids, be married, be over 35 and so on but Ive connected with people who don't fit in this criteria, so these are not set in stone.

Obligatory I'm not looking to change either of our situations.