I'm smart, you're smart, we both get jazzed by conversations with people that have a variety of interests and strong opinions about them, but why the fuck (smart does not negate the requirement for potty language) does the word sapiosexual have to be the one that gets bandied about for us?

I'll be frank, I do not get turned on by performative latin; "sapio" does not do it for me (but correct use of semi colons might). Let's instead just agree that the perjorative schoolyard "brainiac" will do instead :)

I jest, mostly. But I am looking for conversation that goes beyond how many cups of coffee I've had this morning, and stops somewhere short of being so nerdy about the topic you know the names of the farm workers who picked the beans. I'll take passion and curiosity and a breadth of interests please, and someone who doesn't really mind rambling dreams of conciousness and soapboxes like this post has been.

So if you're looking for a dad who writes the kind of stuff above, has a self deprecating humour, perhaps unreasonable confidence, and is conventionally tallish and good looking, give me a shot.

I promise a hot sports opinion, a music recommendation, or a book/podcast review for every respondant.