Preliminary

61 [M4F] #Netherland

The_Hague #Westland #Rijswijk #Delft #Online

Dutch dominant man looking for sexual conversations and encounters with women, preferably between 18 - 40 yrs old

Preferably in real life and long term, with a good intellectual and emotional connection.

Long distance chat is also possible. But timezone gap needs to be less than 3 hours.

Discretion, safety and consent are key 🔑

Please read this post until the end. 🙏🏻

Warning ‼️

Don’t get discouraged by the list further on in this post. Besides the requirements it’s just a dream girl list. So don’t hesitate if you believe to come even a bit close.

Who am I ?

I’m a dominant man, but with a soft heart. I’m polyamorous but extremely loyal to women that I’ve chosen to be my partner. I need 2 to 3 long time partners in my life. I expect my women to be loyal to me.

With loyalty in this respect I don’t mean monogamous of course, but loyal in my sexual commitment towards you and the 1 or 2 other women I wish to sexually commit myself to.

I’m extremely sexual and inquisitive but nevertheless in a dead bedroom for up to 20 years with a vanilla woman I truly deeply love for otherwise we would have left eachother a long time ago.

On the one hand I feel emasculated by this but on the other hand I can’t be truly emasculated since I’m a typical alpha male gorilla type of men with next to his high libido an indestructible self confidence.

My sexuality and inquisitiveness need an outlet! And that’s where you come in.

I’m a highly educated Dutch overweight 61 yr old kinky and dominant guy.

So I’m a real prize 🏆

What am I looking for ?

I am looking for the almost impossible!

A submissive female friend with benefits that has the hots for older overweight guys and can respect my current relationship.

Our relationship would preferably not only be sexual. I like to chat about other stuff also, make a real connection. But sex would nevertheless be the primal purpose of this liaison.

Are you the unicorn I’m looking for?

You are at least :

• Skilled in Dutch (preferred) or English
• Interested in secret long term connection
• Female
• Non-monogamous
• Not interested in replacing my current partner (Preferably you are, like me, in a dead bedroom relationship with someone you love dearly)
• Feisty, Joyful and emotionally balanced
• Extremely horny and in need of sex
• Exhibishionist
• Sexually investigative
• Living in a zone with time differing no more than 3 hours from Dutch time.

For in real live you also need to :

• Be clean, taking good care if yourself
• Be without STD’s
• Living in the Netherlands
• In region The Hague / Rijswijk / Delft / Westland
• Or be willing to move to or meet there
• Like to give head

You are preferably :

• Into anal and rough sex
• Between 18 and 40 yrs
• Fairly attractive (because I can’t fool my dick 😉)
• In possession of perky tits (size less important)
• Fit (healthy with BMI < 25)
• Shaved in the nether regions (don’t like hair in my mouth 😘)

You should be interested in or intrigued by:

• being submissive and freeuse
• outdoor sex
• rough sex
• inserts and fisting
• fat guys (BMI 30 to 40)
• old guys (60 )
• strong muscular alpha males
• intelligent men (IQ >120)
• swimming
• sciences (very broad interest)
• good food/drinks & music
• action sci-fi & fantasy

I can be fairly limitless if you need me to be. But I don’t expect you to be. Just a bit kinky but willing to investigate is enough.

And of course limit setting, safe words/signs and after care will always be part of IRL engagements.

I fully understand if you won’t tick all the boxes of my dreamgirl list, so don’t hesitate if you believe to come even a bit close.

However even though I value to create a real connection do realize this liaison is primarily for both our sexual gratification, criteria facilitating this are most important and discretion is crucial.

If you just wanne chat/sext

If you just wanne chat/sext with me then criteria can be much less strict. However do expect to be verified and be willing to share nudes.

I don’t expect you to show face right from the start, but is much preferred. And since I’m aiming for a longterm relationship based on trust, full disclosure both ways will be the goal anyway.

I do expect social chat, sexting is important but good communication on an intellectual and emotional level, and being genuinely interested in each other is equally important.

When in roleplay It must be sexual and I don’t want us to do it in third person.

It must be in first person!

And I’m not interested in writing a literary novel together with you. Most important is to create a feeling of actually acting it out with you as if you were here with me.

One human being of flesh and blood sharing their body, lust and feelings with another.

So once we are in roleplay I need your dedicated attention and responses with as little delay as your writing skills allow you to.

Are you interested?

Do you think you can handle me? Do you think you can rock my world? Do you want me to rock yours?

Then please send me a chat invite.

In your first message I expect you to include your age, residence, relational status and reason for respons.

Together with a copy of the above list of criteria (each item checked with Y or N).

That way we prevent having to check them during chat and not getting further into real conversation.

Hope to speak with you soon!