Hi! I'm looking to get somebody off c: I want to aim for long-term and ideally I'd like to try being friends as well so it feels less shallow/less like we're using each other. I'm not interested in one time only things and I'd prefer that we don't just meet, get you off and then I leave right after in general.

I'd prefer it to start like this: we chat a bit to see if what we want matches up and we're compatible, we meet somewhere public at first and then we go to some place private to have fun. I'd prefer to be doing something at the same time- at least when we start like playing a game, watching something (porn, anime, some movie, etc.) or anything else you can think of that we could do while my hand is busy

I'm good with this being reciprocated if we get along well. I'm also okay with going further once I know you better. I'm not interested in kissing if you're a guy probably. I'm okay with some foreplay if there's anything you'd like. I'm not interested in penetration or giving/receiving head in the short term. I'm open to doing specific things you like if you have anything in mind c:

Note: I am trans femme but effectively look like a guy rn because I only recently figured that out- so just expect a guy in terms of appearance (don't refer to me as a guy though pls). I don't mind dressing up if you want but it's not something I'll do by default.

I can host but it's not ideal for me to do that since I have roommates. I'm okay with it if there's not a better option though! (I'm okay with traveling a bit.) Also, I'm okay with doing this soon (like within a week) but only if we chat enough to get a feeling for each other in that time. I'm not okay doing this like within 24-48 hours of first talking though lol

You:

22-36 years old. Hygienic and laid-back and/or not anger-prone. Willing to put some effort into chatting prior to meeting. (Please say a bit about yourself when you message including your age and gender <3 longer messages are preferred in general.) Shy, inexperienced and/or people who have bodily insecurities are all welcome (but not required lol)