That's what I've heard from my mother since yesterday, cause I had a bad crisis due to ob sessive thoughts, she knows about my problems, it's just way too easy to ignore them, I said "I wish I could" ossessive thought and rituals are killing my brain, taking most of the energy I have and her response it's just "don't think about it" or "don't do it" and the worst "it's not their fault it's you" (referred to all the time I think my best friend or others are in danger cause my brain told me that) that's the worst cause I can't control my own mind, I wish I could, I want that so badly, not only for me but even because I don't want to be a burden to my friends but still I have this thoughts, every day and it's killing me... how in the world can someone be so lazy and uncaring to say "just don't have them?" Why she can't open a Wikipedia page or talk to me or talk to my psychiatrist I am in therapy from 19 yo and I am 23 she had a LOT of time!