Hi (please read to the bottom)

Looking to plan a night out one of the remaining weekends in December.

We are an early forties couple in the NOVA metro area looking to expand our sexual horizons. First thing first. This is not a let’s bang tonight situation. I’m not that kind of girl. This is also not for men. My man is more than enough for me (for now) and all I want so please don’t message me telling me what you can do better. I genuinely don’t care. This is for lovely ladies only!

With that out of the way, we are an average busy couple with work and life. Naturally over time things become routine and I want to fix that but I’d like to do so at a little slower than what might be normal on this site. I’d like to chat first and see where it goes. I need to be mentally stimulated before the physical. If we click I could see dinner/drinks and go from there or dancing/drinks. We like to get out but need a little time to plan. Also not sure if this will be just us while he watches, I kick him out, or the three of us. I don’t like planning so let’s just see what happens but you must be ok with all of those possible situations.

Like I said we are early forties who enjoy sports, sporting events, movie night out, TV night in, music events just to name a few. We run almost daily but are not gym rats or super fit just enjoy being healthy. We’re not Barbie and Ken nor am I looking for Barbie. (Not that either of us would turn Barbie away let’s be honest here)

What am I looking for? Good question. I’m not going to stereotype or anything. There is enough of that out there and I dislike putting things in a box saying it has to be this way or that way. Too many limitations. I’m not to worried about age so long as your an adult. Body image, culture, fill in the blank, that’s what makes you well you. I’m not going to say I’m not looking for you because I don’t know. I think all women are beautiful in their own ways. I will say my friends seem to be somewhat similar in certain ways so maybe that is what I prefer. Like me they are comfortable in leggings/shorts and a cute top, as well as a short tight skirt or dress if we want to be playful when we go out. Not afraid to work up a sweat or spend the day lounging at a local vineyard. Confidence is sexy; so are eyes and a coy smile. Not sure all that is a type but there you go.

If you’d like to chat you can find me here but I do perfer KIK (@lovingwife0210) Willing to trade a pic or two but not until we chat a few times. This isn’t something I want all my friends to find out about or at least not yet so not posting pics here