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r/NewYorkSwingersR4R

4,379 subscribers
Welcome to the NY swinger lifestyle! New York Swingers R4R is a community created to connect local NY swingers from all over New York state. Swinging & lifestyle oriented topics are welcomed. Visitors and curious newbies are welcome. Be sure to include a rough location in all posts, New York is a big state from NYC to Albany to Buffalo and beyond :) Please read the rules before posting or your post might be removed or banned.

Moderators

Updated Nov 30, 2024
u/dizzydovesdo Active
Added 1 year ago
Also moderates: r/NHSwingers, r/MASwingers, r/RISwingers, r/CTSwingers, r/Vermont_Swingers, and 1 more...
u/seacoastfun Active
Added 3 weeks ago
Also moderates: r/MaineSwingers, r/NHSwingers, r/MASwingers, r/RISwingers, r/Vermont_Swingers
u/BWC_Delhi Active
Added 1 day ago
Also moderates: r/gurgaon_armpits

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

Be a Good Community Member

Rules in this lifestyle are important, one mistake on someone's rules can have lifetime consequences.

Be polite, respectful & follow proper Reddiquette https://www.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/205926439

Don't monopolize the subreddit by submitting similar posts for several days in a row.

Put a good faith effort into your posts and interactions in the comments.

2

No Selling

Any profiles or posts that mention or have links to OF, Premium Snap, CashApp, or any other methods of payment will be banned.

No selling includes posting flyers for clubs or parties.

Buying includes offering drugs or money for services.

3

Stay on Topic

This is specifically for the New York swinging community so please stay on topic (swinging, hotwife, stag/vixen, etc).

If you are a single and looking for singles, please go use another subreddit. This means any posts stating or implying M4F or F4M will be removed.

4

No Singles Posting Dick Pics

Single Men, keep it classy and skip the dick pic. Be better than flashing a picture of your junk or you'll be banned. Doesn't matter if it is a full body pic, if we can only see part of it, or if it's just the tip.

This is not a ban on dicks in pics but it is a ban on dick pics. If you can't understand the difference, ask the mods.

Be sexy.

5

Appeals/Reversals

We all want to keep this subreddit free of troublemakers. Our volunteer moderators & automated spam filters do their best. Sometimes a good post can be incorrectly flagged or a good member accidentally breaks a rule. If this happens, or you have been told to read the rules, contact the mod team and mention "orange" in your message or title to show you read the rules thoroughly. Be polite & explain your situation.

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to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by No_Frosting4494
10 hours ago
MF4MF Attractive playmates looking to add participants. We are attractive and fun AF. She is an insatiable Nubian goddess 24 years young and I am 6-3, 44, and not a weirdo……well ok yes I am a weirdo but in the most amazing ways. Willing to verify.
MF4MF
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by G_tachi480
23 hours ago
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MF4F looking for a third
MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Evening-Sock-1337
1 day ago
[27/27][MF4F] NYC
MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by ApolloMarshmallow
2 days ago
31/30 [MF4M] #Rochester/Buffalo, NY couple looking for her past hookups 2013-2018 for reconnect
MF4M
in Buffalo, NY
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Kands69
3 days ago
[30/30][MF4F][NYC] Visiting Couple Looking to Make Her a Pillow Princess.
MF4F
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Medical_Feedback5212
4 days ago
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[27/26] [MF4M] - Indian couple seeking a bull
MF4M
in India
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Prestigious-Step3995
5 days ago
[47/48] [mf4mf/f] Upstate, Ny Open to couples and single ladies, no single men.
MF4MF MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by SFPC2024
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for 39/31 [MF4MF] Hells Kitchen - Looking for a couple under 24 to share moonrocks with image
39/31 [MF4MF] Hells Kitchen - Looking for a couple under 24 to share moonrocks with
MF4MF
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Weird-Conclusion4u
1 week ago
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32/30 [mf4F/mf] NYC area
MF4F MF4MF
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Greeneyespawg
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [28/29][MF4MF][NYC] couple lookin for another attractive couple or single F ! image
[28/29][MF4MF][NYC] couple lookin for another attractive couple or single F !
MF4MF
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Cheap_Effective1184
1 week ago
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20/19 [mf4f] nyc/bk no single males
MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by lampsarecool7
1 week ago
Preview thumbnail for [25/27][FM4FM/F][midtown] new to lifestyle couple looking for couples under 35, unicorns, or parties with couples! image
[25/27][FM4FM/F][midtown] new to lifestyle couple looking for couples under 35, unicorns, or parties with couples!
MF4MF MF4F
in Midtown
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by wpcouple
2 weeks ago
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[28/22][MF4MF][NYC] - Any couples free Sunday 11/17? If so, message us.
MF4MF
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Pancakes4All18
2 weeks ago
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Playing with another woman while our husbands watch - MF4MF
MF4MF
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by No-Potential4740
2 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 64/35 [MF4M/MF/F] #NYC Bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates image
64/35 [MF4M/MF/F] #NYC Bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates
MF4M MF4MF MF4F
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Kik-Kinkeecouplee
2 weeks ago
30 [MF4M] #Brooklyn Hot Wife couple looking for guys to show off and use wife while husband watches in PUBLIC! Anon play! YOUNG only!
MF4M
in Brooklyn, NY
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Anonshare69
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 23 [MF4MF/F] Long Island / NYC. Anyone around wanna come hang this weekend! image
23 [MF4MF/F] Long Island / NYC. Anyone around wanna come hang this weekend!
MF4MF MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by SnooStories9587
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 29/32 [MF4MF/F] - Couple looking for other like minded couples or female that would like to take our virginity in this lifestyle. Must be able to verify. image
29/32 [MF4MF/F] - Couple looking for other like minded couples or female that would like to take our virginity in this lifestyle. Must be able to verify.
MF4MF MF4F
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by No-Potential4740
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 64/34 [MF4M/MF] #NYC bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates image
64/34 [MF4M/MF] #NYC bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates
MF4M MF4MF
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by BiNYCDaddy
3 weeks ago
Preview thumbnail for 64/34 [MF4M/MF] #NYC bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates image
64/34 [MF4M/MF] #NYC bi age-gap couple seeks bi playmates
MF4M MF4MF
in New York City
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Kik-Kinkeecouplee
3 weeks ago
30 [MF4M] #Brooklyn looking for exhibition to show off and use a hot wife while husband watches in PUBLIC! Tired of the flakes and losers that waste time! Today?!
MF4M
in Brooklyn, NY
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by rusty_shackleford321
3 weeks ago
38/35 [mf4f/mf] # LOWER HV looking for butt sluts to join in on the fun. send us a dm
MF4F MF4MF
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Royal-Artist-4668
4 weeks ago
46[MF4M] Attractive bi couple on Long Island looking for BBC
MF4M
in New York
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by SFPC2024
1 month ago
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38/30 [MF4MF] #Houseofyes - House of Yes 11/2… anyone else going?
MF4MF
in Houseofyes
to r/NewYorkSwingersR4R by Greeneyespawg
1 month ago
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28/28[MF4MF] #Bethpage
MF4MF
in Bethpage