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Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
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1 post per 24 hours/Spam

ONLY ONE POST PER 24 HOURS. WE WILL BE ACTIVELY MODERATING THIS SUBREDDIT TO ENSURE THAT THE COMMUNITY STAYS SAFE AS POSSIBLE. ANYONE WHO POSTS HERE MORE THAN ONCE WILL HAVE THEIR POSTS REMOVED AND IF IT HAPPENS AGAIN, YOU WILL BE PERMANENTLY BANNED FROM THIS SUBREDDIT.

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Incorrect Format/Misinformation

ALL REDDITORS MUST USE THE APPROPRIATE FORMAT:
(e.g. 27 M [M4F] Clifton looking to meet up first at a bar then see how it goes)
THE POST MUST INCLUDE YOUR AGE, GENDER, CITY OR COUNTY, AND WHAT YOU’RE LOOKING FOR. WHAT’S NOT ACCEPTED ARE NNJ, SNJ, CNJ, NORTH JERSEY, SOUTH JERSEY, CENTRAL JERSEY, OR NJ. IT HAS TO INCLUDE CITY AND COUNTY. ANYONE WHO VIOLATES THIS RULE WILL HAVE TO DELETE AND MAKE A NEW POST, OTHERWISE POST WILL BE REMOVED, REPEATED OFFENSES WILL MAKE YOU BANNED

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Promoting/Illegal transaction

ABSOLUTELY NO SELLERS IN THIS SUBREDDIT. NO POSTS ABOUT PREMIUM SNAPCHAT NOR ONLYFANS NOR ANYTHING LIKE IT. NO POSTS ABOUT SELLING DRUGS OR EXCHANGING GOODS, SERVICES AS WELL. IF WE FIND ANY FORM OF ACCOUNT HISTORY THAT YOU ARE SELLING, YOU WILL BE AUTOMATICALLY AND PERMANATELY BANNED WITHOUT WARNING. WE ALSO HAVE THE RIGHT TO LOOK AT LINKS IN THE PROFILE TO SEE IF ANYTHING SHADY COMES UP.

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Using Social Media

PLEASE DO NOT PUT YOUR PERSONAL INFORMATION. USUALLY WHEN SOMEONE PUTS THEIR PERSONAL INFO ON THE POST, IT’S A SCAM. ALWAYS VERIFY WITH WHO YOU’RE TALKING WITH. NEVER PUT YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA, ADDRESS INFO, PHONE NUMBER, EMAIL, ETC. MULTIPLE VIOLATIONS WILL RESULT IN A BAN

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Verification

The moderators have the right to ask for verification in case the profile history is shady. You may get banned pending on how shady it is. WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE IS IF YOU TAKE A PICTURE OF YOURSELF HOLDING A NOTE ON A SHEET OF PAPER WITH YOUR USERNAME, SUBREDDIT, AND DATE WRITTEN ON IT. IT DOESN'T HAVE TO BE NUDE NOR SHOW YOUR FACE. VIDEO OF IT WOULD WORK AS WELL. THIS IS TO PREVENT SCAMMERS FROM POSTING HERE. YOU CAN ALWAYS SEND THIS TO US MODS AND WE WILL ADD A “VERIFIED” FLAIR TO YOUR USERNAME

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Location

You must be in or from New Jersey to post, no exceptions. It doesn’t matter if you’re 30 minutes from the state border, you must be in New Jersey. A poll decided this fate, there are too many frequent posts from out of state, so from now on, if it happens, you will be banned

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NO FORMS OF TRADING ALLOWED

Obviously people post pictures or videos of themselves when posting here, but some people steal it. Then they try to sell it as their own without any consent. No matter where you got the pictures from (bought/stolen), it’s not allowed. As per Reddit TOS, it will be considered under “using confidential information”. Looking to trade your own pictures with someone else’s is not allowed either. Posting about trading will result in an automatic permanent ban without warning.

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NO MINORS ALLOWED

You must be 18 years or older in order to participate. Any violations will get reported to Reddit and an automatic ban without warning will be issued.

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Account Age and Karma minimums must be met to post or comment.

In order to make a post or comment, your account must be a certain amount of days old and meet the karma threshold we've set. These numbers are not shared, but a casual user on Reddit can easily meet these minimums in a few days or weeks.

These minimums while easy for a casual user to get, are too time consuming for bad actors to gain. As such, this rule is one of a few security measures that help keep scammers, sellers, and cat fishers out of this sub!

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NO BUYERS

Just like rule #3 where we don’t allow any sellers, the same applies to buyers. Automatic ban without warning.

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PLEASE READ THE POSTS/ UNSOLICITED PICTURES

Please, please read the posts on what the Redditor is looking for, for example a male Redditor comments on a F4F post even though the female Redditor is only looking for other females and specifically states that she is not interested in men. Multiple violations will result in a ban. If we receive reports of unsolicited pictures with the offender’s username, the offender will be permanently banned without warning and reported to Reddit in support of the user reporting.

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Low-effort comments are not tolerated

Lazy outreach is not tolerated. Comments such as “hey”, “DM”, “HMU", etc, are subject to a ban if done in excess. Multiple violations result in a permanent ban.

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