DAE experience situations with the narc where shit just works out to too perfect in their favor? Where it's like theres no way they didn't plan this fuckery but you don't wanna believe it because that means they truly are the sociopath you suspected they were.

One example: a few years ago my ex was talking up Christmas since before Halloween. She even decorated my house. Christmas was gonna really mean something to us, and it played right into the innocent/pure/fairytale love act she played so well.

Things couldn't have gotten messier. Her friend committed suicide right before Christmas that year so my ex went over to her house to help her friends now widowed husband out with the kids while he was busy planning the funeral/ greiving. She dajd she'd be staying there 2 weeks tops. My spidey senss went off but I ignored them, considering the friend was a friend of my exes family and considering she just shot herself in the head. She had 3 kids with her husband. My ex started staying over there the day after she killed herself.

My ex broke up with me Christmas fucking day and let me know she was now seeing her friends husband. I find out later her friend committed suicide cuz her husband and my ex were sleeping with eachother and not really trying to hide it anymore. My ex was caught fucking her friends husband on the kitchen floor 9 days after the suicide.

Looking back how much of that was planned?