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I can’t make you any promises or make any lifelong commitments. Trust me you would be wayyy better off. But I like making connections, friendships, having deep conversations that keep us up all night or something to look forward to in the morning. I miss making people happy, feeling desired and wanted. I miss cuddling up with a person knowing the only expectations we have is to have fun, kiss, cuddle, have a good time. Watch movies, share interests, talk about our passions and dreams. Whether you choose to use me as an ear, a body, or a friend I don’t mind. I’m open to whatever pleases you. And I adore having someone I consider and intellectual equal, we can be the most opposite pair imaginable but if we can have deep intellectual conversations and share our feelings about life and the world I could love that.
I truly do not mind if you are married, separated, divorced, dating around, or if I’m just one of many side pieces for you. I really can’t handle exclusivity, or anyone wanting me to be theirs and theirs alone. I won’t lie to you and say I can be exclusive or monogamous. And I don’t want you to expect me to be your next longterm lifemate. I’ve tried it before. Dating someone a decade older than me, twice my age, never three times my age but hell that might change. I don’t believe I’m the settling down type, but especially not at this age. All I can guarantee is lots of laughs, lots of passion, and probably some good meals I’m a master in the kitchen haha.
I’m not here to provide some falsified fantasy or play any games, I’m not gonna be everyone’s dream guy or AP ripped straight from the dollar store novels lol. And I’m okay with that, you should be too. I am not a tall guy let’s get that out the way haha. I’m average 5’8, tan skin because I’m mixed race. I’m in pretty good shape, I’d say I’m pretty athletic. I’m a competitive fighter, have been for years. I do lot of climbing and swimming too. I’m desi so yoga and meditation are practically in my veins lol, but tbh I love it. It brings me peace, and it makes me feel calm and regulated. I’m great with technology, anything with my hands really. I help run a contracting and construction business, and in general I’d say I’m a creative person. I like building and fixing and tinkering. Cooking, building, etc. I adore it. I’m a massive fucking nerd, and if you are to I can imagine we’d have so much fun together. I like animals. I love human rights and could talk your ear off about politics but I know that can be annoying to most folks. I am a leftist though fyi, and if that irks you I’m not sorry.
God I have been talking about myself way too much. I want to hear from you. I want to learn about you and just have a fun time getting to know each other. I want to go on a date, see a movie, work out together, cook a meal together or something. Whatever we want. The world is our oyster! I don’t want anyone to be alone on a shitty week meant to be about love and romance and passion. So let’s see where this goes!
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