"When a woman submits to a man, it's the most precious gift she can give. Herself. Unreservedly. The man has to respect and honor that gift above all else. Even if he respects nothing else in the world, he must respect the woman in his care. It's his sworn duty to protect, honor and cherish his submissive. To take care of her and provide a safe haven. Someone who would put his own needs above his woman's is no man." - I absolutely go by this.

I am a successful doctor (39 M) based out of NJ/NYC. I am really passionate about what I do. I also teach at the University to medical students, residents and fellows. I am a perfectionist and prefer to stay in full control.

l love to travel and go kayaking every place I visit https://imgur.com/a/Plw9Ybn/. I am a sucker for creating the perfect ambiance to match the mood https://imgur.com/a/cu80YFX/. l am also a foody who also enjoys to cook https://imgur.com/a/ m51910F/. I also enjoy photography (Portrait, street and wildlife) and videography.

I am extremely kinky and endlessly creative. My kink list is exhaustive but I am spontaneous and go with the flow when it comes to exploring. I prefer a devoted and obedient sub girl but also love the playfulness. I prefer the deeper connection over anything else. My limits are anything illegal, underage, scat, blood and anything you are not into. A true relationship is a mutual one so your limits are my limits.

You may be wondering why someone like me is messaging here on reddit. I am happy with my professional and personal life but I am missing an important piece of my life puzzle - my kinky partner. Traditional dating has led me nowhere. So here I am just looking for my ideal match.

I have worked and dealt with people from all walks of life so your age, looks, education, background, career etc matters less to me. What matters the most is your flexibility and willingness to make us work.

I really hope to hear back from you.