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r/NJ_Lifestyle

23,161 subscribers
This is NJ’s home for everything lifestyle related. It doesn’t matter if you are a swinger, stag, vixen, bull, cuck, hotwife or just interested to see what it’s about. Sit back, relax, and get kinky.

Moderators

Updated Dec 11, 2024
u/Swingswingswings Active
Added 2 years ago
u/SouthJerseyStagVixen Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/SummerBreakTeens
u/BotDefense Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/MilitaryMen, r/SexyTGirlOutfits, r/HighHeelTgirls, r/yaoigif, r/EroticWriting, and 1175 more...
u/SouthJerseyStag Removed
Added 1 year ago • Removed 13 hours ago
u/Hairy_Constant_1909 Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 13 hours ago
Also moderates: r/R4R_NJ
u/NJCoffeeGuy Removed
Added 10 months ago • Removed 13 hours ago
u/downlowfuck Active
Added 5 months ago
Also moderates: r/NJr4r, r/PAhookups, r/nj4nj, r/smallasians, r/Longislandhookups, and 9 more...
u/purge-user Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/slutsofsnapchat, r/treesgonewild, r/GWCouples, r/gonewild, r/solesandholes, and 196 more...
u/auto-modmail Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/OhioHookups, r/dktestingbots123, r/Bulges, r/softies, r/Precum, and 99 more...
u/banhammerapp Active
Added 1 month ago
Also moderates: r/MenGW, r/Precum, r/Bulges, r/ThickDick, r/conroehookup, and 137 more...

Subreddit Rules

Updated Aug 20, 2024
1

No posting from out of state.

If you post in multiple regions we will assume you are not from NJ

2

Title Must Show Location in NJ

All posts must include the New Jersey location of the poster in the title. This can be either a town or county. Do NOT use North, Central, or South. Third violation will result in user being banned.

3

No spam or subscription pimping

Do not promote your OnlyThots account or any other 3rd party $ubscrption service. This includes subscription info on your profile and premium Snapchat.

4

No hate/trolls

No phobic posts or comments will be tolerated. This not the place. This includes any threatening comments or attempts at trolling for attention.

5

Unregistered Provider

All p2p providers must get mod permission to post. Please message the mod team and offer discrete verification so that you may participate in the community without getting removed.

6

Low effort posts and comments

Posts with minimal information and/or no pic will be removed and ban issued upon 3rd offense.

Comments like "DM", "hmu", "I messaged you", and "DM me" will be removed and a 3 day ban issued for the 1st offense. Second offense will result in a permanent ban.

7

Don't feed the animals

Anyone feeding into an obvious OnlyThots bait post will be given a SIMP user flair.

8

Blocked a moderator

Blocking a moderator will earn you a permanent ban. No do overs.

9

No Lone Rangers

We get there are a lot of Bulls out there. The sub is turning into a sword fight. No lone rangers. Have a woman in the picture.

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to r/NJ_Lifestyle by HeavilySeasoned
59 seconds ago
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[m4f][19][Bergen County]
M4F
in bergen county
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Striking-Comment-610
19 minutes ago
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24M4FM (Gloucester county)
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Inevitable_Army8619
1 hour ago
[21][M4F][Vineland] Seeking Local LT FWBs
M4F Bull 🐃
in vineland
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by BigHuckleberry6077
4 hours ago
30M4FTM MIDDLESEX COUNTY
M4FTM
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by DootDoot195
4 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😌 image
25 [M4F] Vineland - Looking for fun times and fun connections 😌
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by BigHuckleberry6077
5 hours ago
Howdy (M4MF/F) (UNION/MIDDLESEX COUNTY) 👋🏼 m30 235lbs 5’8” 6” thick
M4MF M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by jawnlongman
6 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 29 [M4MF] Cherry Hill Bull image
29 [M4MF] Cherry Hill Bull
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by njfiremanpro
23 hours ago
Preview thumbnail for 35M [m4f/couples/hotwife/cuckold] hosting in Atlantic City 12/13. Have an extra room too. image
35M [m4f/couples/hotwife/cuckold] hosting in Atlantic City 12/13. Have an extra room too.
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by bbcburner
1 day ago
34 [m4f] #pomptonlakes doggystyle in front of the Christmas tree?
M4F
in pomptonlakes
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by g00dvives
1 day ago
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38(Essex county) M4MF
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Madetopleasexx
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [M4FM] [BERGEN] 9” BBC FOR COUPLES , EXPERIENCED. image
[M4FM] [BERGEN] 9” BBC FOR COUPLES , EXPERIENCED.
M4MF
in Bergen
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by qwertysir94
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for 30 M4F/FM [Wayne]fit and hung to blow his load image
30 M4F/FM [Wayne]fit and hung to blow his load
M4F M4MF
in Wayne
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by No-List5725
1 day ago
19 [M4F] Morris/Bergen/Sussex/Warren/Passaic
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Odd_House9734
1 day ago
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25 M4F/FM Trenton
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Sweet-Cod-3360
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [21M][M4F][NorthNJ] who can host and wants to meet up right now? Females and straight couples only image
[21M][M4F][NorthNJ] who can host and wants to meet up right now? Females and straight couples only
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Crazymadirishman
1 day ago
50 M4F/Bi-couple/T# Morris County.
M4F
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by ChampionBI
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [21] [M4F/MF] [Medford] - who thinks they can handle a young tongue like mine.. I’m bi image
[21] [M4F/MF] [Medford] - who thinks they can handle a young tongue like mine.. I’m bi
M4F M4MF
in medford
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by satchelcarrier
1 day ago
25 M4A
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by One-Magazine-967
1 day ago
Preview thumbnail for [27][M4A][SNJ] looking to be super kinky & expend sexual horizons. No limits for me (pic is old I'm clean shaven now) image
[27][M4A][SNJ] looking to be super kinky & expend sexual horizons. No limits for me (pic is old I'm clean shaven now)
M4A
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Severe_System4231
1 day ago
[33] [M4MF] [West Milford] looking for fun bi couples!
M4MF
in West Milford
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Ready-Ad8621
2 days ago
26 [M4FM] #cherryhill nj guy 6’6” 7” thick BWC
M4MF Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Electronic-Archer850
2 days ago
m24 need head or to creampie F before I move to LA
M
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Inevitable_Army8619
2 days ago
21 [M4F] Vineland | Looking for Local FWBs
M4F Bull 🐃
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by Designer_Window_8697
2 days ago
33 [m4mf] - Hudson County - Voyeur wanting to watch
M4MF
in New Jersey
to r/NJ_Lifestyle by OrganizationFun2095
2 days ago
Preview thumbnail for 45 M..Monmouth County, experienced with hotwives and couples..available today..[M4F/MF] image
45 M..Monmouth County, experienced with hotwives and couples..available today..[M4F/MF]
M4F M4MF
in New Jersey