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Trans women with cis woman partners…
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…do you ever get to a place where you actually feel like you’re both girls or do you always just feel like a “boyfriend in a dress”? Like I just find it hard to picture feeling like a woman when being with a cis woman. Being taller and wider in every photo, with mannish facial features. It sucks because I’m a lesbian but I don’t know if I’ll ever feel valid in anything but a t4t relationship.

EDIT: I’m not really asking how your partner treats you. I’m asking how you feel internally.

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i have had many cis girlfriends. i felt like a boyfriend in a dress, or like in my head i always thought "gay boyfriend," until i was about two years into HRT. i still get pangs of jealousy of cis girls, but its more like the way girls get jealous of girls than the way boys might feel excluded by girls.

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