Heya, thanks for opening my post! I gotta warn you now, this is probably gonna be a longer one; I’m planning on putting a lot of heart into this. And also, if the post is still up, that means I’m still looking! So don’t worry if it’s been up for a few hours or days, feel free to slide into my DMs. So, without further ado, let’s get right to it!

Like it says in the title, I’m a 31-year old subby guy. I’m cisgendered, heterosexual, and Caucasian. I’m 6’0 and a little on the chubby side, though that’s something I’m actively working on losing. My hair is shoulder-length, and a dark blonde color, while my eyes are a hazel-green. I tend to have short-trimmed facial hair, but sometimes I decide I want to go bald faced.

Racism, sexism, homophobia, and transphobia are hard “no’s” for me, so if any of those apply to you, please save both of us the time and look elsewhere. :)

What am I looking for? I’m looking for a friend, first and foremost. I’d love it if we could enjoy each other’s company in a casual setting, with some kinky fun whenever the mood strikes us both. Shared interests are always a plus, but good vibes and just having fun together is the most important thing, imo. I’m open to something more romantic if it develops organically, but I’m definitely looking for kinky friendship to start. I do have a preferred age range of 24-36 years old, but I’m willing to push it a little in either direction for someone I really click with! I’m totally on board with an online-only dynamic, especially to start with. But if seeing and/or visiting with each other is feasible, I’m totally open to that as well!

With regards to monogamy vs polygamy, I consider myself monogamous. I’m open to forming a connection/dynamic/relationship with someone in a polygamous relationship, though! I ask only that I not be neglected; I don’t require constant attention, just please don’t leave me feeling as if I don’t matter to you. I’ve had bad experiences with that recently, and I’m not eager to repeat it. Also! Polygamy is totally fine by me, but I cannot and will not abide cheaters.

A bit about me. I’m a huge nerd tbh. I love astronomy; I’ll talk your ear off about space-related stuff if you let me. I’m also into gaming, mostly sandbox and rpg games, with a couple of FPS games sprinkled in. Bonus points to you if we can play something together. :D I’m extremely shy and easily flustered, especially via praise and flirting (Don’t worry, I really love it, I’m just awful at responding to it without devolving into a blushing mess). I also consider myself a connoisseur of dad jokes and awful puns, so I hope you’re prepared for that. :D

I have a black cat named Luna, and I rescued her from the streets about four years ago. She’s my little baby. <3 I’m happy to spam you with pictures of her if you want.

As far as kinks and stuff go, I’m a sucker for praise and pet names. I’m also really into edging and orgasm control, and I’m very curious about anal play. Breath control by way of smothering or choking are also very appealing to me, as is bondage. And finally, I’m a huge fan of giving my partner body worship. <3

I can say for sure that my partner’s pleasure and enjoyment is my top priority. Higher than even my own. I dunno if that counts as a kink, but I just get a lot of satisfaction and joy from doing what my partner wants. I definitely have a preference towards more gentle dommes, but I’m not above punishment if I misbehave (a rare thing, I do my best to be a good boy).

Now for hard limits. Toilet stuff (scat, piss, and vomit) are absolutely off the table. I’m also against permanent damage, extreme pain (minor pain is great, moderate is negotiable), excessive blood, gore, illegal activities and substances, and findom. Cum-eating is a soft-limit. I could be talked into it, but we’d have to really click together and have a good, healthy relationship established first.

Although I’m living in Florida (the worst State, please get me out of here lmao), I’m totally open to an online-only dynamic! Meeting in person at some point would definitely be nice, though, but we can have lots of fun online. :)

I hope this was a decent rundown on who I am and what I’m looking for. I’m kinda nervous about this; it’s been a while since I’ve actively looked for a partner, but I’m hopeful. If you’re reading this post, that means I’m still looking, so don’t worry if it’s been up for several hours or even a few days by the time you see it. I would love to talk on Discord or Telegram after chatting on Reddit for a bit, but I’m open to other platforms if that doesn’t work for you. I do have to insist that you be willing and able to verify yourself after we’ve been chatting for a bit, and of course I’ll be happy to do the same. Oh, and if you’ve read this far, why don’t you tell me what your favorite color combination is when you message me? :)

So if you see something you like, feel free to send me a message or a chat! Excited to hear from you! <3