In certain parts of the world - kink very much remains under the surface of society (buried so deep it's inadvertently ended up on the other side of the world). In my region, this is especially the case with femdom relationships. The question is - with so many people, there must be some women in search of openly submissive men who, like me, wonder whether they are truly am endangered species, or simply hidden in plain sight.

I'm aware that local dommes may be rare, so I'm definitely open to online play for the moment. I'd characterise what I'm looking for as a casual, platonic, ongoing femdom dynamic.

So, now that the title of this post has been explained, I'll move on to the more traditional portion of this personals ad.

About me:

I'm a 29 year old guy based in SE Asia. Physically, I'm 6ft, fairly lean (not super skinny), with perpetually tanned skin. My general demeanor does not typically suggest that deep down, I'm a submissive desperate for a guiding (or spanking) hand. My non-kinky interests include playing pool, all things outdoorsy (hiking, beaches, mountains), and good old movies - wouldn't call myself a movie buff, but I can sit through a long movie uninterrupted - unless someone can change that ;)

I don't have a huge amount of experience in femdom dynamics. Here and there I've met someone with a fleeting interest, but more often than not logistics tends to get in the way.

Kinkwise, I'm big on control. I'm very obedient, amd thrive on opportunities to display this feature for the pleasure and enjoyment of a partner. Humiliation and degradation are also personal favourites. I'm also big on objectification, not so much in the sense of receiving pleasure via objectification, but more in terms of being seen as an object for my partner's pleasure. Oral sex (giving), massages (giving) - anything that allows me to give pleasure to my partner essentially. Other miscellaneous kinks include assplay, nipple play, impact play (the harder the better), spit play, cum play. I have a preference for sadists, but am not against more gentle styles too!

As an aside, I love writing erotica, and think that this could certainly be worked into the dynamic - something like an on-demand erotica / porn source for a partner.

I appreciate that I may have missed out some kinks (both mine and yours) in the above. Aside from my hard limits (scat, beast, blood underage), I'm open to trying most things.

Anyways, I'm happy to verify (and you should be too). I'd prefer to start chatting on Reddit first before moving to another platform (of which I have most of the typical ones).

Let's see if this can coax some femdom lovers out of the woodwork!