Hello , I'm a 21 year old sub looking for someone to be my hotwife-mommydom partner . I'm seeking a very specific dynamic with aspects from mdlb , hotwifing and RR. I'm looking for a long term relationship , something with the intention of it lasting forever and yes I'll relocate if we hit it off . Below I'll be explaining what I seek specifically and also give a little bit of introductory info about me. I'm serious about finding the right person so it can be a bit long.
About me
Appearance - I am skinny with a slight tummy bulge. About 5'8 in height. I have brown eyes and black hair. I don't mind sending a picture of my face if you text me with a response showing interest. I have smol fingers.
Interests - video games , music , art , Philosophy, etc. I play a lots of video games, mostly challenging games , rpgs , character action games , souls games , Competitive fighting games , etc. I make art sometimes and have a decent singing voice. I enjoy intellectual conversations/discussions about things every once in a while. Tho I prefer being delulu because things get more complicated the more I question so i just stick to experiencing instead of questioning most of the time. If I had a motto it'd probably be "I know that I don't know anything" .
Personality - I am good with communicating things. I'm self aware. I have issues with self worth and judge myself and hate myself frequently for stupid shit. And like every other human I have my share of things that bother me on a regular basis. I'm generally very calm and keep a cool head. Though I can be excited , clingy , spammy with text messages and so on if I'm treated with affection and made to feel smol, safe and accepted.
What I seek
Age and Location - From 19 to 25. I'm open to anywhere around the world. I'll reocate for the right person.
Appearance - Physical attraction matters to me to a certain extent even though I don't have any strong preferences. I'd like to see you at some point early on if we vibe after chatting for a while.
Personality and interests - I want someone who is kind, understanding, non-judgemental, open minded , good at communicating and emotionally intelligent. And it'd be fun if you have any interests similar to mine , but it's not a requirement as long as we feel at home with one another and form a bond.
Dynamic - I'm looking for something that's a fusion between mdlb and cuckolding with some RR aspects. I want someone who would be the "man" in the relationship. I want my partner to be dominant and take the lead in the sexual as well as the non sexual parts. I should also mention that I want an "us" thing outside of the intimacy that comes off of hotwifing.
In terms of non sexual parts , it'd be things like me being the smol spoon , sitting in her lap , her giving me reassurance when I need it, hugging, cuddling, headpats, forehead kissing , making me feel loved and taken care of, etc. Also something important I want to mention is that I want my partner to be the provider in the relationship and I'd be the househusband managing our home , having to get a job and related things stress me out and I find the idea of managing me and my partner's home a lot more wholesome and not stressful so I want to do that. I also like the idea of my partner buying me smol cute gifts like Plushies n stuff and dressing me up in cute clothes as she wishes. I want to feel smol , safe , accepted and loved. I want her to feel like home. Also , even though I want my partner to take the lead , I want to be included in crucial decision making and so on.
Now about kinks and sexual aspects of the relationship. I enjoy Feetplay , assplay , breastfeeding , licking, watersports, ownership, humiliation, petplay , denial , orgasm control , edging , feminization, collaring , cumeating, chastity, cumkiss/snowballing, some forced bi and many other kinks. I'm not the biggest scat enjoyer but I'm open to exploring it if you're into it . Some of my limits are anything involving too much pain or permanent damage , sounding , blood, etc. Many of the kinks I have feel really adorable to me and tie into one another for example collaring, petplay and watersports tie together into ownership, which feels very cute and intimate for me. Loving someone so much and being owned and controlled by them and having their bodily fluids on me is very intimate and hot for me. Same goes for chastity, cumeating and cucking and all that.
That said, Inspite of being submissive I have a "softdom" side to me as well . It's includes being nurturing and caring to my partner. For example baking for her or preparing a bath or massaging her , etc. It's non sexual in nature. So if my partner is having a dom drop or something I can provide her with support and love like her precious little boy. This side , however, can get overwhelmed if I have to take big responsibilities and stuff for a prolonged period.
That's about it. There's a lot more to talk about, summarising everything was hard and ofc doesn't give the full picture, just a general idea. Feel free to dm me if you're interested and ask away if you have any questions. Thanks for reading , best wishes for you :)
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 10 months ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/MommydomPer...