Hello there!

This post might be a bit on the longer side as I'm really trying to put myself out there, since I'm looking for something healthy, with someone physically and equally important mentally healthy! So with that said strap in (wink wink) for my novella!

About Me:

A bit about me is I'm a 28 year old cis-male working in tech. I am Canadian, but because of a project I'm currently on, I am based out of Croatia until just about Christmas (also have EU citizenship so that helps). Other than that, I generally have the freedom to work remotely so location isn't an issue from that perspective. Normally I tend to be based either in Southern Ontario (so great proximity to parts of the midwest and most of the US NE as well as Canada) or Europe.

As a person I'm very physically affectionate and sensual, despite my traditionally masculine presentation that comes with a beard, athletic build, and healthy dose of tattoos (working towards a partial Japanese body suit). I'm not the tallest dude I'm somewhere between 5'9 and 5'10 with an athletic build (broad shoulders-narrow waist), come in pretty good shape which should get even better as I get myself back into running after a lay off due to an injury (and obscenely hectic work schedule). Here's a pic of me (https://imgur.com/a/LbgKjHZ)

What I'm looking for"
I am definitely looking for a connection where we both get to explore and see how it develops, particularly as it pertains to our roles. If we really click I'd really love for it to potentially lead to an LTR, in whatever shape that looks. I've had an interest in femdom and am only starting now to explore it. I kinda wanna have a normal life on the outside but kinky when it's appropriate and fitting. I really tend to gravitate towards more GFD but am open. I like the emotional intimacy of GFD where you expose the most animalistic and kinky side of yourselves only to be embraced in love, warm, and comfort at the end.

In terms of kinks, and embracing a LB/subby role, I think I seek submission as a reprieve from day-to-day life. I am naturally a heavy introvert, but both in my social setting, work, and previous relationships I'm often assigned or take up the role of being a leader. Part of my daily job is managing & advising leading executives & decision makers at some leading organizations, as well as managing my own team internally. Friends and even roommates are surprised to hear when I tell them I'm an introvert. This means that I regularly need time to decompress and have my own time. I would love to submit for hours or days at a time, as it's also time that I'm not in control and can more or less go along for the ride as someone else is driving. That being said as kinky as I am and would love to be, I don't want it to be the sole defining feature of a life as I've got plenty of other interests as well.

Kinky Me:
On a kinky level, I think you'll be happy to know that I'm quite pliable! A list of things that I'm very much into as far as I know (definitely not exhaustive) would be edging, tease and denial, ruined orgasms, forced orgasms, post-orgasm torture, bondage, ropes, light pain/cbt (love me a nice endorphin rush), all manner of body worship, foot rubs/worship (receiving but especially giving), being called a good-boy, calling the domme mommy (or daddy), face-sitting, smothering, CEI/snowballing (super, super hot), being dressed up in panties/stockings/nylons/lingerie, discrete public play and some verbal humiliation can be great too. I'm also really curious about trying some chastity, pegging, collars (really want to try being collared and leashed), trying plugs and other anal training, as well as sensory deprivation/stimulation. Also not sure if it counts but I also really love erotic hypnosis and asmr. Limits of mine would be pretty normal/vanilla things like not getting shat on and anything overtly humiliating in public?

Hobbies/Interests/Personality:
I guess I'll conclude this (long drawn out) note with a few traits about myself and some insight into more of my interests. I've got a strong optimistic nature, friends consider me to be empathetic, I've definitely got an open mind and love trying new things, and I would consider myself to be quite humble, (and for some reason have been using brackets very liberally as of late). I'm an avid reader- mostly nonfiction, but have a strong appreciation for fiction-, I enjoy drawing in my freetime, playing poker, cooking & trying new recipes, and can't live without music and movies. I also like TV, but mostly binge watch HBO series when I have the time (which is rare cuz TV isn't a priority unless the show is incredible). I'm quite athletic, I used to be a competitive tennis player, I enjoy exercising, and when I'm feeling lazy don't mind sitting on the couch to game or watch some tennis or soccer (or just the news). Also 420 isn't infrequent in my life.

I've lived in 4 different countries so far and have throughout my life developed the habit of moving around every few years and would consider myself somewhat worldly. Also really into exploring nature and new places- so very down for all manner of adventure.

I would say I still romanticize many things in life and am more than likely to be romantic in a relationship as it's something I don't believe a relationship should go without. I'm romantic in both your typical sappy ways and also in terms of small gestures. Passion and satisfying my partner is my love language. Would love someone to travel with, have little and big adventures together, share incredible experiences of all ilks, just genuinely be amazing life partners while also being kinky af!
Cheers