My partner and I have been looking for a full swap couple for quite a while. Well, this week it Finally happened. Met the other couple at a hotel. We all had fun as far as conversation and partying. My partner and the gal had quite a good time in bed. He ate her for a very long time, and tried to have intercourse, off n on between the oral, but was having a bit of trouble maintaining an erection. They both enjoyed themselves, and I'm happy about it. Now, her partner and I barely touched each other. He kept telling me how sexy I was, how much he wanted me...but nothing happened. My partner ducked me for a min, (but didn't seem too enthused) after his first session with her, then continued to spend all his time and focus on her. We didn't touch, or anything the rest of the night. When it was time to go, he hugged me real quick, said ttyl, and left. We don't live together, so we each drove. I'm confused. Is it normal for your partner to focus on another, almost exclusively like that? I'm not jealous, just disappointed. He sensed my "weird" feeling, but didn't mention it until I did today. He didn't say anything else about it. Just not sure if that's "normal swap" or what but I feel maybe he should have included me a bit more. Feeling let down.