As the title suggests, I went to Between Friends MFM night last night, the 15th of October. I woke up that day thinking I wasn't going to end up going: I had other stuff to do and had planned to go to the theatre beforehand, so I’d be pretty tired when I got there. Nevertheless my play friend and I rocked up a bit later and it was pretty packed.

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In short, I had a great time. It was my second time at this venue (and my second time at any sex on premises venue) and with the second visit my nerves had dissolved a lot. My friend is a self described shy guy so it was on me to make most of the introductions. We met a genial couple whose names I’ve now forgotten that we played with a little upstairs. They were nice and patiently listened to my gangbang pitch (more on this later). It was their first time at BF and I think they had fun.

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I/we found more success this time with the crowd- people were less shy and more ok with being spoken to by a blunt smiley woman with an undercut. One thing I experienced was a small handful of men who silently looked at me/us and sort of followed us around a little but didn’t want to say hello. It wasn’t creepy per say, but I don’t understand how you expect to play with someone without saying hi to them first. Maybe I’m old fashioned like that. I am assuming I’m not alone in this experience.

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I’d also been in touch with some people on RHP before the event and mentioned I was going. They said they were going too and that we might see each other there. Because we arrived late and it was packed I didn’t think I’d see them. But I did! Hooray! You guys know who you are, and thank you for the fun. Let's do it again sometime.

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Overall it was a good time. We left at about 1am and by that time I was completely knackered. My advice to people who are nervous is to be open to starting conversations with people even if they look like they came with their own friends. Be upfront about your intentions if you find someone attractive and invite them upstairs. You won't die if someone says no thank you. In that vein, “no thank you” is a good phrase that women should become more comfortable with using.

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But my gangbang pitch! I’m attempting to organize gangbangs as I think I could do a good job of this. We have an expression of interest form in which you can express your interest if you like the idea of participating in a gangbang and wouldn’t mind paying to do so. You can be any gender to participate. Send me a message about it if you're interested. Fill that in and we’ll get in touch.