Hey all, first time posting. I'm happily married and not looking to change my situation or anyone else's. My partner is my no.1. I have a child on the way. That means I'm not always available. Most frequent time for contact is working hours. I am available to send messages outside of that, but irregularly.

I'm looking for someone who shares those priorities. I'm not looking to be your main event. I want your partner and family to be your top priority. I want to know you're happy in that situation.

So why am I here? Despite being happy, I've never stopped liking talking to other people. This is my next big point. I love good conversation. Good conversation for me requires equal effort from both parties. I am not looking to be the one doing all the chasing. I want to be chased as much as I chase you. I want to be met on equal terms.

Also, I'm not looking to be your only outlet. I expect you to want to message other men/women/others. I'm fine with it, I'm open. What you do with other people is not my business unless you want to talk to me about it. I expect the same treatment.

Finally, don't message me if you have a problem with any of the following:

1. I'm 5'8 height.

2. I have fair skin (like.. close to milk white).

3. I like cutting banter as much as being kind/ compassionate. Don't engage if you can't take it/ keep up.

4. If you're just looking to sext. I like 'good' conversation. That requires time and effort before I'll be sexually attracted to you.

5. If you're expecting a face photo early. I only share that kind of data with people I have learned to trust. Trust takes a long time.

My 'fun' activities are: Exercise, reading, gaming, seeing friends and family, good walks, some crafty things.

My (almost) full physical description is: 5'8 height, short dark hair, blue eyes, fair skin, slim athletic body.

Thanks for reading. I hope you're well.