You're from the UK, and preferably over 40 years young, hard working, always on the go, making sure your family is safe and well, you're busy running the household, always tidying up after them all, you do the weekly shop, prepare and cook the evening meal, you probably plan the family holiday every year too. The only moments peace you have is when you soak in the bath, or manage to find the time to settle down with a good book..

..and when you're having your moments peace, you can't help but wonder, wonder what it would feel like to be noticed again, for a man to go out of his way for you, to check in on you, send you 'good morning...' message's for when you wake up, and let's face it, some mornings can be monotonous, when all you need is something to lift your spirits, like a virtual hug, to settle you in for the day ahead.

Your mind still wondering, what feelings would stir up from within, desire, and the feeling of being cared for, excitement, and giddiness, oh and those butterflies too, maybe?

So, i guess you're looking for a man who knows a thing or two about delving a little deeper than surface level chitchat, because underneath your wife and mother responsibilities, lies a woman yearning to be noticed again, maybe the woman you once were, or maybe you've noticed yourself change the past few years, and you're in need of someone to pull you out from the monotonous routine of life, and remind you that you are a desirable woman?

Let me tell you a little about me, I make no apologies for being who i am, the older i get, i seem to care less about what people think or say these days. I'm more comfortable in my skin than ever before and i know what i like and what i dont like. I'm straight up honest and will say what's on my mind but at the same time, im empathic (sometimes it's a curse, and yes it's contradictory) and wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm prone to over thinking and sometimes worry about the little things in life, because the little things are actually really important. I'm a husband and a father, although my marriage is good, at times it's not so great, most of the time we're best friends, heading into a dead bedroom. I'm quietly confident and fairly intelligent, easy to get along with, inquisitive, down to earth and fairly laid back when in good company, im more of a glass half full type of man. I consider myself to be a gentleman, polite, courteous and emotionally intelligent. Even though im 50, i look a little younger than i am, in fairly decent shape, with a full head of hair, a short greying beard, and I've been told i have nice kind eyes and a warm smile.