Hoping this finds the right person that lights the spark to a fulfilling and satisfying connection! And hopefully that right person is you!

Why am I here? Well, I’m in my mid-20s in a marriage that had a near-dead bedroom on arrival. I married my best friend from college about a year and a half ago. Most of our relationship works well… but our sex life does not. Never has, sadly. I have a very high libido, but my wife has a very low one. I would honestly love to have sex every day if I could, but she’s content with once every two months (which is what ends up happening anyway). I want to explore my kinks and try new things, but she is VERY vanilla. It’s not just sexually frustrating, it’s emotionally draining at this point. She makes me feel unwanted and it hurts. I can’t help but feel like I’m wasting the sexual prime of my life. I want to be wanted. To be desired on a deep and primal level. I want to let it all out with a woman who’s just as sexually charged as I am. Who wants me just as much as I want her. Who takes as much joy in pleasuring me as I do in pleasuring her. I’m hoping that woman is you!

What am I looking for? For lack of a better term, a friend with benefits who is genuinely my friend. I want us to get to know each other, talk about our days, learn about each other’s quirks, likes and dislikes. I want us to have a genuine connection… and also have lots of fun😉 we’ll keep things online for now, with chatting, phone calls, and video calls. I have Snapchat and discord for that, but not telegram (Sorry, I know that’s a popular choice😅😂) However, if the opportunity is there and the time is right, I might not be opposed to irl! Not looking to change my situation or yours, though!

What am I like? Great question! Physically, I’m 6’0”, Caucasian, with light brown hair and green eyes. I’ve been told I’m handsome. I have a slight dad bod, but I’ve been working on that—exercising at the gym, building muscle, and losing weight! Speaking of which, I’ve come to love being active. I go to the gym as regularly as I can. I love to hike when I find a nice trail. I enjoy kayaking on occasion too! But make no mistake—I am also very much a geek. I’m a big fan of Marvel and Star Wars, and I enjoy spending quality time watching movies! I can also play guitar and sing. I have been told I have “golden retriever energy.” Want to know more? Feel free to ask!

What kind of person am I looking for? I value women with intelligence and a sense of humor. I’m hoping to find someone who stays active but also enjoys some cozy time in. I don’t exactly have a “type,” but if you have curly hair I can pretty much guarantee I’ll be attracted to you😍 I hope you’re the kind of person who’s sweet in public… but not afraid to get wild when it counts👅

Think we’d be a good match? Feel free to reach out! Hope to hear from you soon!