Hi. I'm surprised I am making this post, but I am hoping for a conversation to find that variety and perspective that I'm lacking. I am not looking to change any situations (been married for 7 years and attached way longer), but I can't deny I'm tempted to see what or who else is out there.

For what I bring and who I am, I consider myself a Hard worker (tech manager). I pay my bills. I fix my own things, clean up after myself, and love some DiY. Life shouldn't be boring, but I balance my fun with depth. My health matters, not so much that I can't enjoy some beers but I'm at the gym 3 days a week. Maintaining my life can be busy, so while I try to be responsive, if I'm slow, that's why. 8-11 EST is usually a good time. In any conversation, you set the pace, and I can lead from there. I don't want you to think you need to do all the work. I''m into hiking, cars, tech, games, and pets. I'm open to discussing pretty much any hobby. While I''m not expecting our conversation to be sexual right away, but I'm far from opposed to it ;) I'll do my best to be articulate, descriptive, respectful, and discreet.

I'm hoping to talk to a woman around my age, but I'm not opposed to anyone older or younger. I'd like to have a conversation first and we can take it from there. I'd rather long term but we don't have to force anything. I hope you are open to deeper topics but also open to have fun. Whatever works for your schedule is fine by me. I want to talk about why you are here and what you are looking for, to see if maybe I can fulfill it. Pics are not necessary, I don't expect you to be a supermodel but I am hoping you are able to make some time to take care of yourself and be your best self.

Not necessary, but I would fall hard for someone who in an important position in life who wouldn't be expected to be here. If you are like me and need a break from being the good one who does what they are supposed to, I'd love to talk with you.

If anything I said sounds intriguing, please some time a chat. Tell me your ASL and what you hope for from me

If post is up, offer stands. Have a good day no matter what and I hope you find what you need.