So, in case you agree with me maybe keep reading and if interests you slide into my Dms, won’t you?

I am a 43 yo man from western europe, married in a loving but sexless marriage. I am not looking to physically cheat on my wife, but rather someone interesting enough to tease and be teased by.

I consider myself an intelligent and open minded person who, being involved with it for nearly 20 years, approaches the BDSM realm with responsibility and care for the mental aspect of it all.

I am and always have been a natural born switch, which means i have and am always interested in exploring both sides of the D/s dynamic though , depending on the person i’m dealing with, i might lean more towards one or the other side. I usually let the personal dynamics decide that bit.

I have had experiences with both female (online and irl) and male (online only) partners and am quite open to exploring whatever dynamic is thrown at me as long as it is based on honesty and mutual respect for the limits of each person.

Rather than listing my kinks, which would makes this an even loooonger post, i believe it will be easier to just expose my limits.

I am not a fan of extreme humiliation or excessive brutality, neither am i attracted to the usual scatological and permanent branding practices. Apart from that, everything is pretty much for discussion and exploration, even if with different degrees of intensity and motivation.

I also put a huge weight on the aspect of privacy and personal safety, both for me and the person i’m dealing with. As i’ve seen stated in one of these posts, the internet is a scary place sometimes.

I am looking mainly for a long term dynamic with someone interesting and who enjoys expressing themselves in writting.

I am not often available for live chatting but do come here at least once a day with a bit more time and often during shorts breaks just to check things out. Pictures and videos are defly on the table but certainly not until a basic level of trust has been built.

So, if by any chance you got this far and are still tickled with curiosity to find out more, do slide into my Dms and let me know a bit more about you and what you are looking for.

Hope to read from you deviant minds soon ;)