My 42 year old husband enjoys masturbating to nude female selfies. It seems nowadays anything goes but that is not what I grew up with. My husband has acknowledged he is aroused at the easy access to nudity and says it’s unbelievable to have this type of nudity available.

He has admitted that selfies arouse him because they are real girls enjoying their sexuality. Not a fake show that is commonplace in other types of porn. Any thoughts are welcome. I am trying to be reasonable living in this day and age as most people look at porn at some point in their lives. But this isn’t what I imagined in my marriage.

Is it normal for a man his age to masturbate to this type of pornography? We are both Christian.