My fiance and I have been together for about 4 years now, and had lived together for a while, nearish my parents. Because we live about 250 miles away, and have pretty conflicting schedules, instead of seeing each other every few months for a week or two, we see each other once or twice a month for a night or two.

I realise I'm really lucky that his family and friends have 'taken me in' as such, and they're all lovely people, and I love to see them, but I'm going down this evening until monday, which is the longest we'll have seen each other for a while, and ALL his family and friends want to see me. I know I shouldn't be annoyed about seeing people I like and who genuinely care for me, but he's just agreed with all these people on my behalf to go and see them.

Am I being horribly selfish by wanting to just spend almost the entire weekend with him? I know it's too late to do anything about it for this weekend, and I've spoken to him and he understands my point of view, says he'll think about it next time, but I'm still really quite upset.

I suppose I just wanted to vent before I go down this evening so I've got it out my system.

Thanks for listening :)