TLDR: Seeking geographically specific advice about what sites are most active and/or how I go about meeting someone irl when I don’t live in a big city and by all accounts look straight.

Hey guys 👋 , not sure if this is the right place to post but I was hoping for advice re: dating sites and places to meet other women. In Aus- Qld specifically, but I travel interstate sometimes too. So yeah, like, how did you guys meet your wife/partner?!

I feel like you have to know someone who knows someone and I literally don’t have friends, let alone a friend group. I don’t frequent bars either. Pubs yeah, for a sneaky cold one… The apps have been kind, but HER isn’t really much of a big thing here. Would tinder be better? Age group early 30’s. Me: femme. Absolute slob or red carpet, no in between. Dog lover. Cat allergic… (lol I know). My Type: Masc, Butch.

My pup and I go camping frequently and I while I like the isolation, I wanna be alone-but with my person.

I guess I could join a camping group but a queer friendly camping community? I don’t have fb either, so yeah, can’t join ‘groups’ on there; I’ve done fucked myself by having zero social media (except recently- Reddit).

Thanks for your help or redirection to the appropriate forum.