Hey there :)

I'm a 31 year old guy in Long Beach. I'm a switch but have never been a sub in person and that's something I'd like to explore. I have 3 weeks off over the holidays so I'm looking for something casual in that time to learn and experiment with a domme and see where things go.

I'm open to things continuing past the 3 weeks or moving from a more casual thing to a more serious thing. At least to start I'd like to keep it casual more like a session/FWB type thing. I'm happy to chat more about that so we're both on the same page with our expectations and hopes.

In terms of the dymanic I'm looking for, it leans much more toward us being equal partners exploring together instead of something more like a one-directional power exchange. I also think I'm much more receptive to a gentle mommy-domme style of domination, something more guiding and encouraging and not something that involves cruelty or negativity. Like I'm good enough feeling embarassed/humiliated on my own so it'd be really great to have someone who recognizes that but then can encourage me to keep going instead of talking down to me, if that makes sense.

I don't want to list a bunch of kinks because that's boring, I think a lot of the fun will come from exploring and trying new things and seeing if I can push myself to do things for you (or be okay with you doing things to me) that I wouldn't have done on my own. I will say that a hard limit is most likely butt stuff. I know a lot of dommes are interested in pegging but I'm pretty sure that's not for me. Also happy to chat about this so you know where I'm coming from.

I don't really have any hard limits on age or experience, so feel free to reach out! I'm open to exchanging some SFW pictures just to make sure we pass the physical vibe check before moving on to more!