I've been searching for a dedicated ANR Partner for 10 years. In that decade, I've been fortunate to have some success in the form of short term dry nursing encounters, but finding a partner to induce lactation with has been difficult. The challenges of distance, hosting, and work schedules always get in the way. It's a pattern that I found repeats over and over again. Recently, I've realized that I could go my entire life looking for someone in my area for this, and I could never find them. Yet it's clear to me just by looking at the various ANR pages on reddit that there are women out there who share my passion for ANR and want to experience a genuine nursing connection as much as I do.

So, I've decided to expand my search. I've written this post in the hopes of finding a woman in SoCal/The US who is lactating and wants to spend some time with a young man who is eager and willing to focus 100% of his time and energy nursing from her when he is with her. It doesn't matter where in the US you are. I can travel and put myself up at my own expense. What matters to me is that you are lactating and that you want to spend time with someone who is wholeheartedly committed to nursing while they are with you.

The basic facts about me are that I'm:

• 29
• 5'10"
• 100% single
• Work in a creative industry
• Music and art lover
• Appearance wise, I definitely have more of a cute/lean look than the macho/muscular one
• Currently working on my second master's degree
• Someone who tries to treat everyone with kindness and respect

My decade long interest in ANR started as an accident. Years ago, I dated someone who enjoyed sustained breast play, and though the subjects of nursing and lactation never were said out loud, the dynamic was certainly there. When that relationship came to an end, I discovered that the experience left a profound effect on me. The idea of being held, cared for, and desired regularly on a very intense and intimate level grabbed my attention unlike anything else had before. Nursing created a powerful, relaxing closeness that felt like exactly what I needed in life. At the time, I knew how I felt but didn't quite have the words to describe it. As a result, I turned to the internet, and found that there were whole communities of people who felt like me, who understood how special this experience was.

For me, nursing is about the mutual appreciation of your partner's mind, body, and soul. When I'm at my partner's breast, that's where my focus is. Could sexual activity be a part of it? Sure, but that's something for my partner to decide, not me. I am completely satisfied with nursing and any cuddling and physical affection that comes with that activity. This is an experience where I can be nurtured, cared for, and appreciated by my partner. If she decides that she wants more, I can respond to that need, but it's her decision, and I will respect it.

To simplify my perspective: If I had to choose between a lifetime of only nursing or sex, I'd pick nursing without hesitation every time. For me, there's a beauty and intimacy about it that supersedes anything else in this world. That's what ANR means to me, and I hope it means just as much to you as well.

In a perfect world, I'd live with a lactating woman who wanted to make nursing a core part of our daily life. However, finding a woman who is lactating and interested in ANR is perhaps even harder than finding the proverbial needle in a haystack. And I know because I've been searching for a decade at this point. My hope in making this post is to find a lactating woman who feels just as strongly about nursing as I do and wants to experience this while we both have the opportunity to do so.

Specifically, what I'm looking for in a partner is a woman who is:

• Lactating
• Single, or in a relationship where they have they have their partner's consent to nurse someone else
• Age 28 - 50
• Someone who has a strong desire to nurture and nourish their partner
• Ideally, someone who is similar to me in the sense that they are educated, employed, and shares some of my interests outside of nursing

In the time that we are together, I would love it if we could do our best to mimic the ideal lifestyle ANR. That is, to spend our time together in a way that allows us to experience what it would be like if nursing was completely integrated into our daily lives. Essentially, what that boils down to is nursing anytime your breasts are full or when you feel the need to. Whether that's first thing in the morning, at 2 PM in the afternoon while we are watching TV, or the last thing we do as we fall asleep together in each other's arms. Whenever the need to nurse strikes you, I want to nurse, no questions asked. If we could turn this into a bit of a vacation for both of us, that would be even better, but I would be more than happy to find a way to make this work in the context of your everyday life. Just know that however we did it, I would commit 100% of my time, energy, and availability to nursing when I'm with you.

Now of course, this is a lot to ask for, especially in a reddit to post from someone you've never met before. If you choose to respond, I don't expect us to start making plans to meet right away. There has to be at time for us to get to know each other and find out if there is any level of physical and emotional compatibility between us. Nursing feels best when your partner is someone you feel connected to on multiple levels, so I want to be sure we both feel good and comfortable with each other before we meet in person for this experience. That said, I don't want to spend months talking to someone who doesn't share my same desire to meet. For me, this means exchanging face photos once we start talking and then moving to video calls after about a week. After about three weeks, we should make a decision about whether or not we want to actually meet in person. If you live in the SoCal area, I'm happy to meet for dinner and drinks earlier to just get to know each other. If you're outside of the region, I feel that about a month is enough time to get to know each other to make a decision.

So there you have it, everything about me and what I'm looking for. If nursing means as much to you as it does to me, then reach out. I'm ready to drop everything and nurse from you if you are.