37m 6’ 210lbs, 26f 4’11” 130lbs

Seeking boyfriend for super shy wife.

Wife is extra shy so ideal situation would be someone (super chill who understands consent and won’t give her the ick) willing to come hang out with zero expectations and get to know her.

We can host between 9pm-1am most days and have a nice setup to hang out and watch whatever (totally not pirated and streamed thru Plex) movies or TV you may be into (or just watch some random stuff with us if you have no preference). I can introduce you and then head into my room to play games or work on projects when shes comfortable enough to be alone with you or we can all hang out and watch something or play games or something whatever makes everyone the most comfortable.

You hosting and her going out on her own with you is an option once she’s comfortable but she’s very shy and has anxiety that keeps her from initially meeting people.

Bonus points if you’re into (her interests):

Ted Lasso (also other AppleTV shows)

LEGO (!!!)

Austin Powers

Baldur’s Gate 3

Sims 4

90 Day Fiancé

Some info in rant form:

I know this might seem weird but I’m hoping it will help my wife build confidence after being isolated from being a SAHM for years. She is interested in meeting new people and making new friends (she wants to find someone she gets along with to chat about their day and cuddle and watch tv together) but her anxiety keeps her from initially getting to know anyone.

She is open to full poly relationship or just friends with benefits (but she wants someone who will prioritize being a friend).

We are a stable happy couple in a long standing ENM relationship and we are in ongoing specialized therapy sessions (and have been for years) to avoid codependency issues.

We don’t expect anyone to be exclusive or anything but we do expect everyone to know their sexual history and have some sort of schedule or plan for STD testing. We are both tested regularly, were tested recently (even though we hadn’t met any new partners), and we have always tested clean so far.

She read this before posting and told me to add:

She wants to text a little before meeting anyone just to make sure everyone gets along. (Makes sense to me.)

Will edit or add a comment if we can think of anything else.

Edit: Send face pic for faster response we will send one right back. If you don’t she’ll probably ask for one anyway and also please say a bit about who you and what kinda stuff you’re into or hobbies you have or whatever.