So, I remember that when I was an active participant of personalitybase.com (well, when the site was still up and running) people there suggested ISFJs are most attracted to ESTPs, ESFPs most attracted to ISFJs and ISTPs, INFJ/ and INTPs are most attracted to each other, INTJ’s are most attracted to INFP’s, ENFJ’s are most attracted to INFP’s and ISTP’s, ESFJ’s are most attracted to ISTJ’s and ESTJ’s, ISFP’s most attracted to ENTJ’sc INFP’s are most attracted equally to ENFP’s and INTJ’s…

So who are ESTJ’s most attracted to? Who do they feel the strongest pull toward? I’m an ISFJ and my strongest crush was on an ESTP (there were other reasons psychologically as to why this was the case, but I remember that there was STRONG attraction here that I’d never felt toward anyone before and have never felt toward anyone since. It’s like I was more attracted to him personality wise, to the way he seemed to function, than I have ever been to anyone else before. It legit took me 1-2 yrs to get over him, though I didn’t like him after I did and I think the pandemic starting so abruptly was a factor. As an ISFJ, I also have had specific ESFP’s who I absolutely felt did “like” me platonically

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