So long story short. I live with my GF and we've been living together for almost 2 years. When we started living together we had a verbal agreement of cleaning, cooking and bills. I didn't had much time to clean she didn't had a job, she cleans and coocks and I pay the bills.

She wanted to get a job because she was bored when I was on my job. So she started working, no money needed for the house, I paid rent, electric bills, groceries and anything needed on the house, all her money was for herself and that's all. But lately she got new friends from her work and I'm really ok with that. The thing is that she started going out with them when she got off work and I'm also OK with that. But I get home and nothings done, I had yo go work on short today because I don't have any clean clothes, I got home ( she's had two free days) and nothing is done, dishes are all around the kitchen, dirty clothes, all trash cans with dirty bags ( I usually get them to the dumpster), bed wasn't done, so pretty much think of a house with No cleaning for two weeks.

I've been getting food before getting home for her, I've been cleaning my clothes for the Last month, I've been paying about $3200 per month at first I didn't said anything because she said she was tired from job, I just told her to relax and do it whenever she had a chance, but after 2 days off I had to take pizza to my house, get there to go grocery shopping and get back quick because I'm doing my laundry right now.

So I told her that we needed a better agreement that could be OK with her work because I thought It was to much for her to work and clean. And she got offended because I was "complaining" about how she cleans and cook's, and over that I even was telling her she had to help with rent.