Hi. I'm a 29 year old straight cis male. I've always been into the idea of ANR since I hit puberty (and possibly before that). It's been my biggest kink for my whole life, so I would like to find a woman who is looking for that for her relationship as well. I'm also a Dominant in terms of BDSM, so the idea of a hucow is very appealing for me. My personal might be less of a farmer looking for a cow, as I truly do want to find a long term relationship, in addition to the kinky lifestyle. So this personal will be more in the style of traditional personals, as I believe we can build the kinky relationship if we have a working romantic relationship first. Hucow/Lactation/ANR information is at the bottom.

The age range I'm comfortable with is 21-33, but I am willing to talk if you're a few years older/younger.

About me: As stated, 29 years old. Live in NY state, but I am open to traveling for a visit literally anywhere, and open to relocating in the future if things go well. Mixed race (Asian/White). 5'10''. I would describe my body type as muscular/in-shape, but not gym-rat levels of shredded/ripped/jacked.

I'm an extroverted introvert nerd. In my free time, my biggest hobby is playing video games, and would love to share that with my significant other as well. I also like manga and anime. I play Dungeons and Dragons with my online friends. I like to read and write. My non-nerdy/outdoorsy hobbies would include swimming, tennis and martial arts. I definitely prefer a night-in over a night-out. I also like to exercise at home to at least stay in shape.

I can cook, clean and I take care of my pets, so I am good with cats and dogs. Definitely more of a cat-person overall, but I love animals in general, so most anything is fine. I lack experience with more exotic pets, so just expect apprehension of the unknown from me if that comes into question.

What I look for in a woman is someone who is nerdy like I am, first and foremost. My love languages are acts of service, quality time and touch. I like to receive words of affirmation, quality time, and touch in return. So, the best way to spend quality time with me is if you could enjoy/share my hobbies with me, namely video games. Because it is a dealbreaker for me if you have no interest in gaming or think it's childish, as gaming is how I relax/maintain sanity.

In terms of physical appearance, I prefer Whites or Asians, but I'm willing to talk outside of that. My biggest ask physicality-wise is that you don't be overweight by a BMI standard, or at least be close to being a healthy weight and working on it. I am happy to be a gym buddy, but I can't be a fitness coach/personal trainer. I try not to have a dad bod personally, but I'm also willing to talk about that if you're into it.

I am admittedly a boob-guy, which is probably why I even have this kink, so I would prefer larger breasts if at all possible. The bigger the better works for me, but anything C-cup or larger is fine by me.

If you're still here and have read past all of the usual dating personals stuff, here's what I bring to the table in terms of ANR and Hucow lifestyle. Like I said, it's been my biggest kink for as long as I've had kinks, and I've done a lot of personal research into the topic of ANR and inducing lactation. So, I'm well-aware of things like adhering to nursing schedules, the use of galactagogues like fenugreek and blessed thistle, the proper technique for the Marmet technique, proper suckling/latching for inducing, and the use of Domperidone or other medications to aid in inducing. I could go on as well, but just know that I'm ready for the commitment required for this lifestyle. And I will say that as this is a hobby/kink/lifestyle for the both of us, I am more than happy and willing to share/fund any purchases requisite for the ANR. In terms of pumps, medication, galactagogues. I would not force that burden onto you alone. But only once we're in a committed relationship, of course.

If any of this appeals to you, feel free to send me a Reddit chat or a PM, either one. Reddit chat has been finicky for me, so I would like to move to Discord or some other, more reliable form of messaging. I have SFW photos I am happy to send, and I will ask for some of your own as well. At least one video call will be asked for as well to verify we aren't catfish, but after that, I am happy to video call as often or as rarely as you'd like.