My husband and I both have access to this account, so we'll both be able to read responses. We are very secure in our relationship and have complete trust in each other.

He would very much like to watch me be with another man, where he would join in as well so they can both pleasure me. We have even talked about it during sex and I'll admit, it turns us both on immensely.

I'm not completely opposed to the idea (I haven't said no). However, I have questions and concerns.

For those of you that do participate in wife sharing how has it affected your relationship (good or bad)? I don't want it to be a gateway to swapping, individual encounters etc. I have no desire to see him with anyone else.. This is something he has been pushing for (not in an aggressive or mean way) and being shared has always been a fantasy of mine (will it be as good in person as in my fantasy....who knows....that's another concern).

Then there's the whole question about will it become something we're dependent upon? Do you find different people each time (which I've seen recommended) etc. As someone on the outside looking in - but considering joining in- I would just really like more info based on actual experiences from other couples.

Thanks in advance for your help!