I’m very experienced as a male being invited into a MF couples relationship. This last weekend, it was the first time meeting a newish to the lifestyle couple after chatting on the 3F app for a little over a week.

My advice for newer couples:

Don’t get hammered drunk on the first in person meeting with your potential experienced third.

I talked as best as I could with the inebriated husband to make sure he was aware of the situation and was cool with it. He seemed to be, but clearly he was so bombed that the bar staff was already close to kicking him out.

I mentioned to his wife he seemed like a handful when he was drinking like that.

It made me so uncomfortable that I made up an excuse to leave.

After I left I texted the wife essentially saying maybe we should try this meeting again before everyone starts drinking. I got ghosted lol.

That’s pretty much it. Such a waste of time.