It’s been awhile since my first post and I figured it’s about time for an update. My initial motivation for sharing was to get some perspective from others on our first time adventures into this lifestyle. Although there seemed to be mostly men responding, I did connect with a few wives on here and I was super grateful for their comments and input. (Love you ladies!)

If you read my first post you’ll know that my new lover took me (well us really) to erotic places my husband and I hadn’t previously explored together. But then COVID hit and I was left wanting more. At the same time my husband means the world to me and I didn’t want to do anything to jeopardize our marriage so the natural pause button was probably for the best.

In the months since we’ve had plenty of time to process and although we adhered to the physical distancing recommendations, I still stayed in regular contact with him. We texted/sexted regularly both 1:1 and sometimes via group messaging to involve my husband. Initially we were mostly just getting to know each other better. I learned that he is 32 years old, works in tech, lives alone downtown in a beautiful condo overlooking the city and had been in an open relationship for the last couple of years.

Of course we also talked about the developing dynamic between the 3 of us. He shared that he has always been naturally dominant in past relationships (I’m not surprised, lol!) and that back in his mid 20s he was regularly seeing a married woman with her husband’s approval for almost 5 years. He added that they had some of the hottest sex he had experienced up until that point and that he had been looking for a similar arrangement since then. I told him about our past experiences swinging and we talked about some of the limits that he had been pushing with my husband and I. The big one being that we used to only do same room play but had made an exception for him. He said he got off on telling my husband to leave the room knowing that all he could do was listen to how passionately and intensely he was fucking me through the door. I told him how hot it made me to see my husband in the corner watching and how it made me wet that he used my husbands’s mouth to get hard before entering me. He said he considered himself straight but in this context the power play turned him on and he wants to explore that dynamic further.

After awhile we hit a groove and I started to feel more of a personal connection with him. Yet I still hadn’t seen his face. My husband and I talked about the pros/cons of asking him to send a face picture. The big “what if” being that I don’t find him attractive. Although physically he’s one of the hottest guys I’ve played with, I know myself well enough that if I’m not attracted to his face, I won’t be able to continue playing with him. My husband did his best to describe his features and thought I’d be pleased, but he has been wrong about other guys before. Plus there’s something really hot about the mystery involved and obviously I’d be giving that up if I made that request.

Ultimately I decided to take the risk. After asking for a face picture, my phone got a message back right away. I think I may have waited at least an hour before I was able to bring myself to look. My heart was racing and I instantly felt a wave of relief wash over me as I was greeted by a picture of a clean cut, sharp dressed man that looked more attractive than I had even hoped. Short light brown hair, blue eyes and a beautiful, warm smile that made me melt. Whew! Oh and he has a name...Jason, formally known as the Gold Masked Man. ;)

Although the mystery was now gone, the anticipation of playing with him minus the gold mask went up ten fold at that point. I imagined feeling his lips all over my body as he took my pussy in whatever ways he desired. It had been a couple of months since we got together last and I was eagerly waiting for our local restrictions to ease up so we could get together again. My husband and I had also stopped swinging during this time to do our part to keep others safe. Fortunately, (and unlike many of the hotwife/cuckold posts I’ve read here), my husband is an incredible lover. So I haven’t exactly been suffering sexually during the pandemic. And considering how insatiable I am, he has done an amazing job keeping up with me. But I’ve also been craving Jason’s hard cock and the way he fucks me and dominates us both. So much so that there have even been times where I’ve shut my eyes and imagined it was him fucking me instead of my husband. That my husband was forced to watch from the corner of our bedroom again. The “mind” has got to be one of the best sex toys on the market.

Recently Jason texted my husband and told him he needed to buy me some new lingerie. However the catch was that I wasn’t allowed to have sex with my husband in it. That I could only wear it for him. We were both turned on by the directive and immediately hopped in the car to go shopping. When we got to the store my husband pulled out various selections asking if I thought he would like it. We eventually settled on a one piece that was classy, subtly revealing and had a detachable crotch. When we got home I put it on again so my husband could send Jason a couple of pictures for his approval. Even though I could tell how turned on my husband was getting seeing me in that outfit, I wouldn’t let him touch me. I knew it was driving him crazy but I also felt a strong desire to respect Jason’s rule. I haven’t worn it since as I’m waiting until we get to see each other again.

Lately we’ve been talking about mitigating risks. He recently broke up with his girlfriend and has been continuing to work from home. Both my husband and I work from home too and always wear masks when we have to go out for groceries, etc. We talked about ways in which we could pick things back up again in which everyone felt safe. We ultimately agreed to not see/play with anyone else besides each other. At least for the time being. My husband and I talked about how that means we’ll need to make ourselves more available to him to keep him satisfied. And although the idea of being available to him whenever he desires is tantalizing, in reality I worry that my husband might end up feeling left out. But after sharing these feelings, we decided to move forward trusting that we’ll cross that bridge together if we get to it.

On Monday Jason messaged us both. He said he wants me to come over to his place this Friday. I’m supposed to show up wearing the lingerie my husband had purchased under my coat. He told my husband to help me get ready and then drive me to his condo downtown. Since it’ll be our first time getting together in about 3 months, he wants me all to himself. My husband is supposed to wait in the car downstairs until we’re done. I can’t remember the last time I ever felt so nervous, excited, anxious, giddy all at once. My heart races whenever I think about it and it’s still two days away. This will be the first time I’ve ever played with another man without my husband present (or at least in the other room). However, Jason made a good point and that it’s something I need to get used to doing if we’re going to be playing together more often. I did tell my husband that we’ll be checking on him occasionally to make sure he is feeling ok. And I’m not planning on staying the night, just a few hours.

Once again, if any ladies are reading this and have suggestions/input/advice, please comment or chat. Even though my husband and I have had good open communication, I do deeply value an outside perspective as we are very private and I don’t feel comfortable talking about this stuff with my friends.

Oh and wish me luck! :)