I( 32f) have had a long standing fantasy of ending up with a bf who is into the lifestyle and sharing a really loving, kind, supportive relationship that’s built on lots of mutual respect, trust, communication, and which also comes with the freedom to explore being a total slut and acceptance over the fact that I’m a SWer (stripper/content creator) and it’s what I love.

The entire idea of this kind of relationships is naturally, suuuuper appealing to me, and I was really excited to start researching more about the lifestyle and exploring this - I start to do more and more reading, and to my dismay, what I end up seeing are a lot of are cucks talking about hotwives as basically human blow up dolls. But then I simultaneously know that the majority of you are in really fantastic relationships where your partner genuinely is very loving and supportive, and sees you as a whole ass person in all your slutty glory.

So like, where did you all meet your partners if you didn’t already start this together? How have single hotwives gone about finding prospective partners in this lifestyle, and do yall have any tips for weeding out dudes ask just fetishize us as from those who actually do want a relationship at the core of this?