We had to meet as this is ot agreement that all her guys I meet prior to them engaging, this is one of my boundaries that is very high with me and she has not pushed it .

And I'm good with that ,

So meeting prior to them engaging is all 3 of us get tested together same clinic , and hand over our results to each other.

This was my idea at the start and if you want to be with my wife you have to follow simple instructions,

So that's fine with and he told her he wants her to suck him off the first date and fill her mouth with his cum but not to swallow it at all , only keep in her mouth and give your husband a deep wet kiss till he swallows all his cum , but she is not to swallow any herself this time .

Well we talked about it after that first date and he left , told her I'm thinking it can be one of two reasons why he wants it done this way . 1. Domination, that he wants to assert himself within our dynamic between him and us , but mainly me the husband. 2. He is getting back somehow that we insisted he go with us together and test then hand each other our results so all 3 of us know from the clinic .

Now the clinic part she thought he wanted to remain private with this , but I wouldn't do it that way and won't let her . ( Boundaries she doesn't want to cross herself ) He can lie do easy , everybody lies and I'm not having it . As best precaution as I can right ?

I don't own her , it's not a rule , it's a boundary that she knows IF she crosses it . I'm done with this marriage.

I won't tell her she can't go something and here is perfect example. We both like creampies, but I don't want it at the expense of an SYI . If she is ok with that , that's on her not me and it's a boundary that I am head strong on And won't remove.

So anyways, he is clean and I'm wat on board with this cum kiss we have done it lots of times before she knows I love it and I'm the one she always lets swallow it anyway so him making it a requirement that I swallow and she doesn't is like someone pushing cash in your pocket and telling you that you have to keep it . Lol this guy .