Lurker here. Made a new account for obvious reasons

We’re not married yet so I don’t know if it counts, but my fantasy and kink is basically hotwifing

What happened was my fiancée who I’ve been with for 4 years knows about my kink/fantasy. We have our fun with it, she’s very into it as well and we do role play and what not. She hasn’t fucked anyone else besides some light flirting, we’re not ready for her to fully be with another man yet. We’re in our 20s for some context.

She was out with her friends the other night and they got pretty wasted. She slept over her friends place and it was just the 3 of them. Apparently they were talking about their boyfriends and sexual stuff. My fiancée is very understanding of my fantasy and knows I’d be devastated if others find out. She truly is an amazing girlfriend, well now fiancée, however she accidentally slipped up and said something that completely gave away my fantasy.

She felt instant regret and her friends were dying to know more and she wouldn’t share more, but it was too late, her refusal to share more was just as damning as confirming the fact that I get off to her being with another man.

She told me the next day what happened and was very sorrowful. I believe she genuinely feels horrible and it was a complete mistake. I asked how much they know and she said based off what she told them in the moment, they kinda got the whole picture.

I’m honestly really upset. I forgave her and I won’t be upset with her anymore specifically, but her friends are also super close with my guy friends (one of them dates my best friend). And girls talk, I just know it’ll come out more eventually and I feel terrified to face that conversation if it ever happens.

“What kind of man would want his girl to do that” is the question I fear most. Which she said one of her friends say. She didn’t want to tell me but I unfortunately pressed to hear everything that was said that night.

How do I move on from this? Do I just own it? I would be even more mortified if my family knew (my friend who dates her friend is also close with my family). Especially with our wedding coming up, I’m just nervous it all breaks out

I just feel down and embarrassed