I’ve looked at this sub a few times and find the lifestyle interesting, but I never thought I’d be in this position.

My wife and I have had our share of wild nights between threesomes and couple swaps, but it’s always something we did together. She is very shy and has never expressed interest in finding single guys to play with, until this past week. I encouraged her to go on tinder, which is what we usually use to find our thirds’ for threesomes, and see if she could find a guy or girl she’s into.

I was on a fishing trip last weekend when she messaged saying she had been talking to this guy that was cute and they hit it off. This is new territory for her so over the past week I have been encouraging her to push the conversation, and gave her confidence that I am 100% on board for her to chat and potentially meet this guy. A few days ago they set a date to potentially meet, and that night is tonight. The guy is very nice and understood she was very nervous, so he told her that the plans were inked, but with a very clear “cold feet clause” which I thought was very respectful.

I have never had a Hotwife kink, nor have I thought it was weird, but not that I watched her get dressed, went over the ground rules, and kissed her goodbye, I really understand why the hotwife community exists. It’s exhilarating! I just cracked a beer and an awaiting to hear how the night progresses.

Not sure why I posted, I just had to get this off my back and let someone know. Who better than the people who live and understand it!