I(49m) told my extremely hot wife(41f) that my biggest fantasy is sharing her and watching her with another man. I’ve been into this for a while but always kept it secret as I didn’t think it would be something she was into. She is very shy, especially sexually, which is why it caught me off guard a bit at her openness and reaction.

We normally have sex about once a week, and it’s very good. Orgasms all around and a great sense of closeness. There’s never been a want or desire for more, however, after I told her about my fantasy our sex went into overload! The last week we’ve had sex multiple times on multiple days and most times multiple orgasms and probably the best sex we’ve had in our 15 year relationship.

I talked her into getting a Reddit account and lurking on some Hotwife subs to get ideas and see what she thinks she likes and doesn’t. I encouraged her to post on what she likes and that I will follow her account and seeing what she likes will be a turn on as well as a bit more from her view and not me completely leading the way. We’ve set ground rules for communications and such and hopefully I can convince her to share her gorgeous self with others and Reddit to really get her comfortable with the next step of sharing her with another man.

So far she seems so excited about this and I am so in love with seeing her sexual awakening. Any encouragement, advice, or words of wisdom are appreciated. I’m not a super jealous type and have had open relationships before, so advice for her is probably what would be most useful. Thank you and glad to be boarding this next step on the journey of life.